How come i'm sooo shy??D:?

Question

i can't be myself,i don't like speaking up,i hate crossing streets if i do i pull out my phone and text or call someone,i hate going places with my friends cuz i get nervous or shy with other people,its a hard feeling to explain.

Answer 1

you have social anxiety.  I experience the same feelings.  It sucks.

Answer 2

I heard there is medication for social anxiety.

Otherwise, hello from a former shy person that pushed himself out of the shell. I had a job that required getting out and talking with people and it helped, but its because I wanted too get out of the shell.

  Its called confidence...

   I think it was from my family moving, and I went from school to school. Didn't have friends to long. I was pretty lonely in school. Even subjected to bullying. Had a kid spit in my mouth. Was always in the back of the class, hardly had adult attention, even at home.

  I think schools have the responsibility to get children out of their shell. Just having speeches in class would improve social behavior, and start them out young.

  Children need to be rewarded for speaking out, its a democracy for heavens sake...

Answer 3

Valerian from a Herbalist shop is a natural remedy for nervous problems and would probably help you a lot with this.

For the mental part - google a short piece called Desiderata. That should help too.

I do hope you will soon feel better and overcome your shyness. UK