How come my friend is so mad at me? What should I do??

Question

My friend is older than me. Like an adult. Well anyways I am getting into so many fights with her then I usually get into with normal friends. It almost like shes just my friend for pity or something. I keep e-mailing her and she never e-mails me back. When I get mad and e-mail her then I hear back from her but if it is a casual e-mail it's like I never here back from her. She always thanks I am freaking out. I really don't want to give up hope on this friend.She really understand me and knows how I feel like when I am unhappy when know one else in the world can see that. I got into this fight with her earlier because I thought she lied to me bought something I swall her a couple days ago then it was like rally wired around her and she wasn't her self either. I have e-mailed her asking if she was mad at me or if I screwed something up when started that fight.She said don't freak out were not but it is like we are I give her my e-mail and haven't hured from her. I have a feeling I won't. I just don't know what to do? What should I do? Do you think I screwed something up when I got into the fight with her.

Answer 1

you must Drifting away  him

Answer 2

What you should do is tell her in person how you feel. If she gets mad don't get into the fight just give her time to herself. Maybe she wants you to get mad. So when she sees that you aren't going to be mad she might  calm down and talk to you. Although if nothing happens and she stays mad just tell her you think you should have some time apart. And always tell your parents. I promise that they will give you the best advice. Best of luck. Write me back and tell me how it goes. If this seems like some good advice then maybe I can give you some more depending how things works out.

Answer 3

You sound needy. Stop pushing her to e-mail you back, when she gets around to it she'll email you. Her getting mad about it is probably because of the maturity level, your probably still a child, therefore you have nothing really important to do. When your an adult life is usually busy, you don't have time to email friends every second of the day. God I hate when people do the stuff you do.

Answer 4

give her some space?

Answer 5

maybe u should give her some space cuz it seems like ur emailing and 'crowding' her too much. maybe ur a little obsessive w/ her or sth? dont email her so much and dont freak out just cuz she doesnt answer u right away. obsessive friends rnt exactly the best kinds.

Answer 6

To me, it sounds like you are obsessing over her a little too much.  Leave her alone for a a couple of days and quit nagging her.  She'll come around.