How come my wife always goes to bed so early?

Question

I don't get it... Like 9-10 max. What gives?

Answer 1

Well, some people are more early birds and some are more night owls.

And those horrible chemical hormones sometimes wreak havoc on a woman's body.

So you may have two things going on here.

Either a) talk to her and be patient and once the medicine adjusts, maybe she'll stay up later, b) you learn to go to bed earlier with her, or more likely c), enjoy the time she is up and snuggle and accept she goes to sleep earlier and you use those couple of hours to watch some s**y movies or surf the net in complete privacy and freedom ;p

Make the best of the situation. it isn't personal, it just is. You can mourn that she's not perfect and has your same sleep schedule (maybe like your exes) but she must have enough other good traits for you to stick around, so just deal (:

Answer 2

Wake up.....You guys are having troubles.....I did not see these types of signs then one day she left me.  Find out the root cause and fix it!!

Answer 3

-contraceptives just run havoc to the lives of women...how i wish for once will shoulder the responsibility and EFFECTS of contraception. Hey men your wife maybe is experiencing the side effects of the contraception she is taking...better consult your doctor if it is affecting you so that she can give you another alternative.

Yes it is common for people to sleep at other times...for me i could sleep anytime and anywhere.

Answer 4

Maybe she is tired.

Why dont you go to bed with her.

Answer 5

Some people function better with more sleep than others. I'm betting she goes to bed because she's simply tired.  

Answer 6

maybe she wants to m********e or just get to sleep or want time alone or maybe shes just boring.

Answer 7

You should speak with your wife about this.

Maybe she's tired or she just needs more sleep than you do.

Answer 8

I'm assuming that she's tired at 9:00 or 10:00... that's usually the reason we go to bed.

Ask her if you're dying to know...

Answer 9

U r not pleasing her.  

Answer 10

it is common for people to go to bed at different times. you can't always be tired at the exact same moment. my bf can fall asleep at anytime as well whereas its difficult for me but hey it gives me some time to myself and i can always wake him up with something naughty. maybe you should try it.

Answer 11

10 o'clock isn't early.  Maybe she's throwing you hints and your missing it.  Better get in there before she falls asleep.

Answer 12

seems like she trying to get away from you by going to bed there must be a issue thats bothering her go to her and talk to her and ask her what the problem is its so obvious thats why she is going to bed i use to do that to my boyfriend just to not see his face

Answer 13

Could be that she's just a person of habit. There are people who do things like clockwork. Disrupt their routine and they will hate you for it.

Answer 14

I think it's normal. Usually the wife worries more about the responsibilities. The guy helps out with everything, but the worries and concerns about the little things can get exhausting. I know women that sleep as early as eight. Some because they try to find how to make every time of day more producting. They hate to lose time doing nothing or missing the chance to use their time for something important.

Answer 15

She's either really tired or really trying to avoid you. You need to find out what's going on with her. How is your s*x life? I take it you're not joining her that early to cuddle, are you?

Answer 16

Why do you stay up so late?  Why is she wrong?  Try understanding her point of view, ask her to explain.  Go to bed and cuddle with her without wanting anything in return.  She'll love that attention, and just maybe you may get some attention the next night.  Try it!

Answer 17

maybe she's tired doign hosuework/officework the whole day..

Answer 18

Well, if your wife is home with the kids or if she works and is tired, then maybe she just wants to get some rest for the next day. This is a question you should be asking her. If you want to spend some time with her then you need to let her know. Or, why not follow her to the bedroom after putting the kids to bed and who knows what may happen after that. Why don't you help her relax a little so you both can have a good night rest and so she can do the same with you.  

Answer 19

Do you have kids?

Are they up in the middle of the night and she's always the one to wake up and take care of them?

Do they wake up at the crack of dawn?

Those would be REALLY good reasons for her to go to bed early.

If this is the case, offer to be the one to get up with them, and then DO IT. Don't give the excuse that you have to work so you can't be woken up in the middle of the night.

Can you tell I have a chip on my shoulder about this?? :)

Answer 20

She's tired....

Answer 21

what time does she get up?  She may be depressed,  low iron, maybe she wakes up thru the night and can't go back to sleep, maybe she is taking a sleep aide, or maybe she is just having her quiet time in bed.  Maybe she wants to fall asleep before you do if you snore & she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.  My husband snores and i will go to bed before him cause if i go after or at the same time he is snoring  that will keep me awake all night long, usually end up on the couch.