How come so many guys are PLAYERS? how can i find one who's NOT? :D?

Question

i'm starting high school & i'm hoping to get a boyfriend. the thing is: i want a guy who cares about me & likes me for my looks AND personality. because i've dated a couple guys but found out they only dated me because they thought i was hot. it seems likes there aren't many guys like that out there who like girls for who they are, & when there are, they think you're out of their league & they're too shy to talk to you!

how can i find a guy who isn't a player? & how can i get him to become open with me?

thnx!

=)

Answer 1

They are usually found in a cemetery.

Answer 2

this is the problem with girls, not u personally but just girls in general. they always go for the jerks and hte players, when they're with a nice guy they always leave the nice guy for a jerk and the nice guy always gets hurt real bad. so then in turn, naturally more guys are gonna wanna be jerks, and then girls complain about how guys are always jerks...lol, not tryna be harsh or nothin and its not personal, all girls are guilty of that at some point lol. jsut my opinion

Answer 3

if they ask you out just become friends with him get to know him if he is a player he will stuff up on the 1st day you talk to him and get to know him. i would say give it around a week know player could last that long  

Answer 4

I'm not ;)

Answer 5

I'm not a player I just crush a lot!

Answer 6

https://join.zenzuu.com/itis

Answer 7

You will find someone.Guy's are jerks just be good to yourself for now.

Answer 8

What your looking for is what we call a 'boyfriend'.

Sounds intense i know, but they do come around.

I was once a boyfriend to this girl, who i refered to her as my girlfriend.

We loved each other very much (but she cheated on me 3 times, so i dumped her).

Dw, bella. There are heaps of guys looking for serious relationships out there. If you are hot, then of course you're gonna attract the players. One day one of these 'players' will be your 'boyfriend' and hopefully your life long partner :)

Good luck :)