How common are student teacher relations

Question

when i was at school i remember a certain group of girls who pined after any teacher who was under the age of 30. i just wanted to know how often you think that line is crossed and is it always the teacher to blame

the girls in my school who I'm talking about were all 17 18 and they through them self at sometimes below average looking men

Answer 1

I don't think that line is crossed all that often by responsible teachers but I think irresponsible teachers who cross the line cross it often. In other words, 99% of teachers don't cross the line. Of the 1% that does, those teachers do it often.

According to Texas law, it is always the fault of the teacher. It's a second-degree felony with up to 20 years.

Answer 2

I'm not sure there's any way of finding out unless someone did a survey, which seems very unlikely. And all young girls pine after the one or two good looking teachers at school. Ours were a maths teacher and a science teacher.

Answer 3

In the UK, they are fairly uncommon, there is a professional code for teachers and it is an offence to cross this boundary for a teacher, it would lead to dismissal and loss of professional registration. There was a notable example of this, who later became a head of OFSTED, the body that inspects teachers, so no one is above criticism!

Answer 4

Just because they pined after the teacher doesn't mean anything was done by the teacher.  Sometimes it is obvious when students have crushes on teachers but this doesn't mean anything is done about it. (I have found it to be typical that teenage girls like older guys in thier lives... I think it has to do with the whole "girls mature faster than boys" thing...)      

I am a high school teacher and I know some of my freshmen have had crushes on me.  I don't even address it.  Why embarrass the student, and why validate the feelings?  Doing this can cause issues for both sides.  

As to how often relationships do occur?  I honestly don't know.  I think any teacher worth their mettle would avoid such situations knowing their jobs would be in danger.

Answer 5

I think i understand your question, well while i was at school i fancied the other lad's in class but teacher wise there was a good looking male teacher who was getting married and when i was 14 yrs old i was shy to undress for p.t. in case mine was smaller then the other lad's, need not of worried it was same size as theirs, but one day this p.t. teacher told me to stay behind because i wouldn't get undressed for p.t. and while standing in his office, he striped himself naked and i looked at his big p***s, he pulled me in the shower and well he showed me what to do, i did enjoy it but admit i was very frightened.

A few week's later he was off sick and another p.t. teacher took the lesson, i did p.t but after this teacher walked in the showers with all of us and i hung about a bit admiring him, we both sort of took our time till all the other lads left and he asked me did i want this, well that ended with us both playing with each other, i kept both things secret until years later when bumping into the odd ex-school mate, i told a couple who said they too had done the same with the second teacher but couldent beleive about the first, however the first teacher liked it and did the same things several times until he left just before i was 15 years old, so hope that helps answer your questions.