How could anyone sink low enough to become a p**n star?

Question

It is the lowest possible thing to sink to. For that to be your profession to degrade yourself that low. Besides from those with bad homes growing up, how could some1 possibly choose to have s*x for money and what do their parents think, from seeing a nice cute girl to a slutt on the internet

Answer 1

Oh goodness this is a great question that stirs up a lot of feelings from both sides. First a little about me:

I grew up in an upper middle class family, was valedictorian of my high school class, top 5% in the US on my ACT, NEVER had a bad moment or abuse of any kind in my childhood or adult life, was the International representative for a youth association for two years while in high school, have professionally modeled in the "regular world" doing runway and being on magazine covers for more than ten years, started my first company when I was 13, and currently own and operate eight businesses.

I have NEVER tried drugs. I do NOT drink and never have. And, yes I DO have morals.

I have tons of self-confidence and my self-image is great. I actually have been in books and magazine articles in order to give others confidence to be happy in their bodies and not to feel that if they are not the Americanized Barbie Doll that is alright to be themselves with absolutely no reason to change (other than health risks) in order to fit into someone else's perception of what they should be.

I have no problem with getting dates, maintaining relationships, or anything of the sort. Most guys that I date are very turned on by what I do.

I am also currently in my doctorate studies at an Ivy League University. Yes, I will be a doctor AND a p**n star.

That's right- I do p**n including my own website. Wow! An intelligent model, soon to be doctor, who enjoys (that's right ENJOYS) doing p**n.

I got started in it when I was asked by a major cover photographer to do an artistic nude shoot. I was a little nervous about it since I had not done anything like that before. But, once I did it, I discovered that I enjoyed taking my clothes off on camera more than being in my clothes. My confidence in myself portrayed itself in every picture that was taken.

I guess that now I will be stereotyped as an exhibitionist and a nymphomaniac. But that is NOT the case. I am so comfortable with my body that I am completely at ease in front of the camera in my birthday suit. I have always loved showing off for the camera which is why I have had such a lucrative modeling career. I know how to work the camera which helps me greatly in my p**n work.

Yes, I do the video thing, too. Again, I love being at ease with myself. I love doing what is natural to humans. I am not the off the wall I will do anything sort of person. That is not me. I am as classy as a p**n actress can be and that is why people join my site and enjoy looking at pictures and videos of me. The self-confidence and myself are carried through each picture and video to the person viewing them.

I continue to do normal modeling- I love it. God gave me the looks in order to do work in front of the camera, and I am thankful that I have them and will continue to put them to use.

I do get compensated greatly for my p**n work. But, it is not my career. I consider myself a professional, but I consider this more of my hobby than a true entrepreneurial enterprise. I do have other aspects to my site which do fit into that description, but the entire idea is about me having fun and giving some people pleasure from what I do.

I do not find it degrading, and I would say that just about everyone in p**n does not find it degrading unless that is why they are in it- for the fetish side of being degraded. p**n is for ENTERTAINMENT purposes. It is not our real lives. Many p**n actors and actresses have businesses which have spun off of their p**n careers or that they had prior to getting started as a hobby just like I did.

I classify women in p**n into three categories: the girl who needs the money and will do anything even though she might not be the cutest person in the world (that would be what you are calling an internet s**t), the girl next door who looks just about like everyone else on the internet who is not just in it for the money, and then the classy ones who "have a secret" or who just really enjoy it since they could make money at doing other ventures (and might be doing that too).

My family is FULLY aware of what I do. I even asked permission of sorts before I got started with it. I did not want anyone coming up to them and saying that they saw me doing this in a picture or video and them being surprised about it. I live in the heart of the Bible Belt, and everyone knows everyone, but in my town since my mother owns the oldest business there, everyone knows me as they have watched me grow up right in front of them and they all know the main business that I started as a child since it is the biggest one in my state. People are going to recognize me and I do not mind if they do, as I am completely comfortable with what I do and what I shall be doing. I wish that more people who were in the s*x industry were open with their families like I am. My family is fine with it because I am safe, am completely taken care of by my security person, have normal relationships with great guys, and I am passing on my self-confidence in my own body to other people who might not have the same.

You might check out this question for my answer about my family and my p**n career:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

As far as going from nice cute girl to internet s**t, you really need to realize that most of us have our regular lives and could be your next door neighbor, and then we have our professional p**n life which is completely different. We keep them separate unless we have to combine them together for one reason or another. The p**n side is for entertainment, we are not getting paid for s*x, it is for entertainment. Otherwise it would be prostitution and it would be illegal. Some of us do choose to do more photographs than videos, and vice versa. It depends on the person and how far that they will go into it and the actions that they will do. Some of the people who are just in it for the money are willing to do many more actions than what others will- which is where the bad stereotype usually comes from in most people's eyes.

Many other careers and jobs are out there which are much lower than being a p**n star, especially since the top p**n stars make 100s of thousands of dollars a year if not millions.

The aspect about being degrading depends on your individual morals and what you consider right and wrong. There are parts of the p**n industry, especially some of the types of p**n, which I find offensive and would never partake in, but the people who do them do not have a problem with it. For every p**n that is made, it is made for a reason. There is a need out there (meaning a real audience) who wants to watch it. They are not making movies and pictures for customers who do not exist, so is it degrading in your eyes too that there are people in society who enjoy watching and looking at p**n?

To me personally, it is more degrading to be in a job that I am not happy with, that I get no personal satisfaction out of, that I cannot please anyone with, and that is a dead end job than being a p**n star. I get all of those things from doing p**n as well as my other jobs. Why do something for most of your life that you are unhappy with? I only wish that more people found the satisfaction in their jobs which I have found in mine.

Sorry about the length but I wanted you to know the full story from someone who does it and who is a "normal person with no reason in my past to lower myself to doing it". I hope that my answer sheds some light on the subject from a different perspective.

Answer 2

Some people like having s*x, and yes, that includes women. So why not paid to do it? There are many different thing you could consider, but it all boils down to: People like s*x, people like watching people have s*x, people like watching other people naked, and the s*x industry is a very large an lucrative industry for these seasons.

Answer 3

s*x is natural, s*x is fun. s*x is best when it's one on one.

Answer 4

AT one point I thought I wanted to be a p**n star but found that just the auditions was enough for me.

Answer 5

Well, I believe that though someone might have been brought up in a bad place, one should always know right from wrong. I guess it just boils down to the fact that everybody values themselves differently. Example: Some people believe in keeping virginity until marriage whereas others don't. Its all depending on the person and how they value themselves. I would rather be homeless and live outside than to be a porno star to save my life.

Answer 6

Is this a science question? Wrong subject Sir Winston. Think first before you ask!