How could i stop my dads marriage?

Question

How could i stop my dads marriage?

Answer 1

well first why would you wanna stop your dads marriage? he must be marrying the woman because she makes him happy and he loves her alot. isnt it a little selfish to keep him from being happy? you probably feel this woman is trying to take your moms place and that doesnt have to be the case. but dont let that feeling keep your dad from being happy

Answer 2

you dont... you respect your step mom to be because your father loves her, and he deserves happiness too... if she is horrible or does bad things to you, you need to tell him and talk to him about it.. if you just dont like the fact that you have to share him with some other woman, then, you need to maybe askl to see a counselor, and talk to him about that as well... i am sure she wants the best for you too... she cant be that bad.. email me if you want, as i am a step mom to 2 young girls!!! and really, i know im not so bad!!! :)  

Answer 3

You cant and shouldn't.

If your dad loves the woman he is marrying then be happy for him and give him your support.

He deserves to be happy.

Answer 4

You can't.  But you can make his new wife hate you by trying.  You can also permanently damage your relationship with your father.  Maybe he is in love and wants to be happy.  Why is that not okay with you?  It's not easy to find someone as you get older and maybe he doesn't want to be alone.  Be happy for him for that.  That he found someone.

Answer 5

You can tell your dad how you feel, but that probably wont change anything. get with the program and accept the change and participate in the family the best you can.

Answer 6

sorry u can't

Answer 7

you grow up!!  

Answer 8

Your a kid. He is an adult. He will make his own decisions, and do what he wants, when he wants too. If he's going to get married, then he's gettting married.

When you grow up and get out on your own, you get to live your life. But until then keep out of his.

You don't own your father. Nor do you have any control over him. Your just his kid...not his entire universe.

Get over it.

Answer 9

Why would you want to?  Does he not deserve happiness?  Is she mean or abusive to you?  I know at the age of 13 I would have done anything to stop my mom's marriage.  Today the man she married I call dad, he is wonderful.  Sometimes we have to realize it is not all about us.  If you are old enough to get on here and ask this question, you are old enough to let dad have a life unless this woman is abusive to you.

Answer 10

Don't make him chose: he might just chose her! Instead get on both their good sides.  

Answer 11

Punch him really hard in the nuts.  If you hit him hard enough, his fiance won't wanna marry him anymore.  

Answer 12

You can't.

You could be like my daughter, create drama, skip the wedding, and let brothers and sisters and your dad enjoy it without you.

Or you could be nice and go to the wedding.

Your call; it's your relationship with your dad. But I obviously recommend choice (B).