I have two daughters, one is twenty six, and other one is twenty four. The oldest one was an alright student in school and got only associate degree in art. She have bunches of tattoos and piercing and so do her friends. She was a suicide girl model and worked in coffee house before she meet her current boyfriend. She has been with this guy who is deaf and twenty seven. He is a high fashion photographer and also own photography studio. He also does kickboxing professionally and does triathlon once or twice a year. He’s very sweet and gentle toward my oldest daughter and very responsible and has everything together. My husband says he cannot be any happier with her choice in guy. My oldest daughter is now running a weekend get away spa and doing quite well. They have been together for three years, have bunches of pets, and are still going very strong in relationship despite of having no plan to get married or having kids. They also own three houses already but have no cars at all.
My youngest daughter, on other hand was a straight A student who hang out with good kids, and at top of the class all way through school. She got accepted into a prestigious university. She end up transferred all credits to local community college after first semester because she got pregnant. She then got into relationship with an abusive unemployed man for two years. After that, she and her daughter moved back in with us and finished college with a degree in early childhood education. Now she’s an elementary school teacher and married to a car mechanic who is ex convict. Her husband is pretty nice but my daughter complains he is really lazy when he’s home and rarely help out around the house. They both also always complain about how their days are long and hard and how they didn’t get paid enough for what they do.
I don’t understand how could my youngest daughter seems to be doing so well at first then end up in this position while my oldest daughter was socializing with her type of people such as suicide girls and other alternative people end up with a deaf guy who turn out to be great. I also found out my youngest daughter smoke pot with her boyfriend and I was really shocked to learned my oldest daughter have never tried anything beside drinking which she isn’t fond of.
How could my youngest daughter not being too well while my oldest daughter probably will be retiring in next ten or fifteen years?
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