How could she b pregnant?!?

Question

aight so im 18 nd ma wife is 19. ma wife juss told me dat shes pregnant dis mornin. i dunno how it could b tho cuz we always use a condom nd shes on birth control nd da condom has never broken or anything. im worried cuz i dunno if its mine or not cuz it seems like ma 15 yr old bro is gettin real close wit her lately nd it makes it worse cuz he lives wit us. i already have 2 sons wit her nd i no theyre mine cuz we didnt use protection or atleast i hope they r cuz i dunno anymore especially now. im not gon accuse her cuz i dunno 4 sure but i really think itz possible she cheated nd shes pregnant wit ma bros baby. i hope she aint tho or i dunno wat id do.

Answer 1

There is a chance (a very small one) that pregnancy can happen even if you use condoms and other birth control.  No contaception is 100% safe but the chances of them both failing at once is small.  I would assume this is your child untill there is real evidence otherwise.

Answer 2

it is still possible to get pregnant even w/condoms and birth control. i was told because of a medical condition and i am now pregnant w/my second child. if you have any serious doubts, i would talk to her about it. just proceed w/caution as she may be very hormonal....

Answer 3

wow, all i can say is good luck

Answer 4

JERRY! JERRY! JERRY! JERRY!

lol Jerry Springer Show...? That is if you want all of your problems to come out to America. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

It really sounds like you would meet the qualifications to be on The Maury show.

Answer 6

News Flash... birth control isn't 100% effective.

If it seems like your brother is "gettin real close wit her" then maybe you should talk to him about it.

Answer 7

I got pregnant on the pill and it is actually pretty common. Also, if a condom even has the tiniest puncture hole in it- s***n can get through and you wouldn't notice it. I can't swear that there is no chance of anything going on with anyone but you, I suppose, but she absolutely could be pregnant with your child despite the protection you two have been using.

Good luck

Answer 8

okay, who cares how you type anyways? you're a dad and you're kids a re obviously doing alright.

But back to your question... my friend sherry got pregnant on birth control and using condoms... all it takes is one sperm and one egg. it happens... i am now pregnant with my second child.. via condom use.. lol

Answer 9

Well birth control is only effective if it is taken every day with no missed doses. As for the condom issue. Condoms can be affected if they are not stored correctly. If condoms get too hot or cold they can be compromised.

May be you should bring this to Jerry Springer! Also learn how to spell or better yet have your children teach you how to spell!

Answer 10

Your in a hard situation.

Asking her if she cheated won't do any good. If she didn't, shes going to be pissed you thought she did. If she did, shes going to lie about it anyway.

After she has the baby, get a DNA test done. The s***s a little expensive, but it's worth it if it'll put the question to rest. If it's yours, you'll be able to sleep at night knowing you've got a faithful wifey and a loyal brother. If it isn't, well... it's up to you how to handle it.

Answer 11

Birth control isn't 100% just like condoms aren't either. If she missed a pill or isn't consistent with it, it could raise her chances of getting pregnant.

Also the effective rate of condoms are slowly decreasing as well.

Anything is possible...that few minutes that a condom wasn't used could have gotten her preggy, or either a hole in the condom...

But I think you should talk to your brother about your suspicion, and just get a dna test when the baby is born...there is nothing wrong with that.

Answer 12

sounds fishy..since you were using double protection..

i would be checking up on that one...unless she stopped using bc...and didnt tell you and poked a hole in the condom...Hmmm