How did Maslow reconcile the contradictory tendencies of self actualizing individuals?

Question

Specifically, how did he reconcile a self actualizer's acceptance of others with the self actualizer's desire to help others to achieve their potential? Aren't these qualitities incompatible with each other, i.e., the more you have of one, the less you should have of the other?

Answer 1

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