How did u make friends? (please help, it'll change my life)?

Question

Hey folks, i'm 20, and i just have like 4 friends and 3 of them haven't spoken to me for the past couple of months and the other one just dumped me. Not that i'm a bad person or anything, the fact of the matter is...i guess, that i'm shy. I'm g*y btw. Yesterday i went to the town pool and i saw a couple of hot dudes in there and i was like " i wish they were my friends!" So what's the deal. I don't want physical sexual encounters with the guy or those hot dudes, i just wanna be friends. So what should i do to make new friends and to talk to them and laugh out loud with them and go to the pool and gaze at them being naked? LOL! What about you, how much friends do u have, not online though? How did u make friends? Thanks for your time and any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

Hi , Friend It helps i went thrugh a simerler episode of my life Im g*y also if it helps well i had littlefriends who i never spoke to so u get lonely and even at times i felt suercidal it very inportant to have friends i surgest you go to a club or look for friends via the internet .

Answer 2

well i'm kinda in the same boat as u r.. i don't really have friends.. but the best way to do it is by being urself and just try talking to ur friends

Answer 3

erm, i'm not sure about the whole naked thing but meh, i'm in a similar situation... there are just enough people in the world i guessXD i guess being yourself helps but still, u should maybe be out there more, among people, take the ''communication'' out of the freezer and try using it a lot more, as scary as it may sound...  

Answer 4

You need to overcome your shyness, and the rest will happen. I was shy up until my Senior year of High School when I had to take an acting class. The class got me over my shyness. I'm not saying you need to take an acting class, but put yourself into situations where you have to talk to other people. This way, it will be easier for you to approach strangers and possibly become friends with them.

Answer 5

Hey all u just need to do is be urself but be less shy and talk to them you just need to go and talk to them

i would have about 3 best friends and 5 really good friends

Answer 6

Well i just be myself and if they have a problem with who I really am then **** em. That's all you can really do and find a group of friends who accept you for who you really are. I got most of my friends from online but eventually came around to meet them or met them through my bf like my bf's pixie ex........ I met him because of my bf and we get along kinda well.