my sons father and i have a love hate relationship, been like this for years. we recently got in a huge fight and he tried to get my less than two week old son taken (didnt happen, because he's basically a disgruntled ex with no job, a felony charge pending and his parents more than likely wont let him have my son at their house because they know im not a bad mom). i dont see things getting better between us.....he takes his anger for me out on our son, like one night he was mad at me cuz i was supposedly giving him attitude, so he wouldnt feed our son a bottle. he loves our son, i know this....just doesnt take care of him the way he should, especially at night when my ex is trying to get his sleep.
im always willing to put my anger aside and allow him to see our son so long as he isnt disrespectful to me...but since we got into this fight 3 days ago all he has done is called once to see if our son was okay and didnt even want attempt to hear what his doctor said.
i know he loves our son, and i want things to work out for the best....i think we should go to counseling but he does what he wants and probably wouldnt even go. so what am i supposed to do?
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