How did you deal with your Broken Heart?

Question

I've just split up with my boyfriend who I love very much and he just wants other things more than me. It's humiliating to tell the truth. We are young, but I don't want people thinking that we're just infatuated with each other. He still loves me very much and wants to be friends, but right as we've split up he wants to start seeing other girls and he is quite a Womanizer. It's not fair that he expects me to be his friend and stand in the side lines watching him do his childish things with other girls. I want to be his friend, but I don't know if I should because all he does is hurt me and make empty promises. I try talking to him, but he thinks he can do no wrong. I don't deserve this..

How do you deal with a broken heart? I don't think I can cope with this pain.. It's not getting any easier.

Thanks.

Answer 1

Get Drunk! Lol Narh Jokes...Maybe..

I Would Makee Him Jelous, Get Another Guy ;)

nd Yuu Never Know Yuu Might Likee This New Guy.

Plus It Will Get yuur Confidence Back And Help Yuu Movee On .

Answer 2

have s*x with his dad.

Answer 3

Been there before.

Find ways to keep busy and keep your mind off of him. Find a new man and don't talk to your ex at all. It might take some healing but eventually you'll get over him. Time heals all wounds.

Answer 4

The only thing that can really heal a broken heart is time. I think you should distance yourself from him for awhile. It'll probably help. Surround yourself with good friends & keep busy.

Answer 5

keep telling yourself "its not that bad"

because trust me, it isnt,,

i know its hard to swalllow but just try and move on.

ive been in this situation before, and i know it hurts, but it will heal to.

think of things and people that will make you happy and surround yourself with them.

and instead of drowning yourself in sad songs, listen to happier ones.

IT WILL HEAL.

& you'll find someone better.

[but dont go for rebounds]

good luck

hope you feel better.

xo

Answer 6

I'm sorry about your heartbreak. I usually deal with heartbreak by asking God to give me the strength to get over the pain and then I start to focus on the things I need to get done in my life. I also have good  friends that comfort me during times like that. It also helps to have a platonic male friend that you can rely on. I have one and he helped me greatly by cheering me up and I know I can go to him for anything.

Answer 7

TELL HIM YOU HATE HIM AND NEVER WANNA SEE HIM AGAIN.................... NO WAIT DON'T. JUST SAY LOOK WE CAN BE FRIENDS AND JUST THINK YOU'D RATHER BE HIS FRIEND THAN HAVE HIM OUT OUT YOUR LIFE ALL TOGETHER

Answer 8

I cant tell you how many times guys have led me on.. trust me.. I have tried and tried to find the right one.. and I finally did.

God works in mysterious ways.. and I promise you will find someone.. even though you love him.. sometimes its just better to let him go..

and dont listen to all these ppl who tell you to forget him and all that junk.. I know its hard and it takes time.. so do it gradually.. and maybe someone special will come back into the picture.  

Answer 9

i'm going through kinda the same thing =/ idk, let me know when you find out. but just know, you're not the only one. i hearr ya.

Answer 10

Im so glad that you are smart enough and value yourself enough to know that you dont deserve what he is offering you, just friendship, all the while you know after what you guys have had, and that you still have feelings for him, you are right you dont deserve to just be friends and watch him be with other girls, it will only break your heart more and more every time you hear or see, what he is doing. I know you have proboly heard this before, but time really does heal all wounds! I know right now you feel like the pain you feel right now will never go away, but it does, I had someone break my heart once, and I honestly felt I would never rercover from it, I got to the point where I thought I might even need phsycological help, cuz I couldnt seem to get over it, but I did eventually, and now that I look back, I thank God, I didnt end up with someone who did not deserve me, and I am sure you will to, Dont ever settle for less! It better to suffer for a short while and not a lifetime of missery! You seem like a smart girl, and you deserve more sweety, wait for the right guy, becuase one day he will come along and it will all be worth it!

Answer 11

A Broken Heart, that doesn't sound healthy I'd consult a Doctor.

Answer 12

I am so sorry. My small piece of advice, get enthralled in things that make you happy. And forget him. Avoid him if you can because it sounds like every time your near him he just hurts you. So you should get active in sports or art. When I draw, cause I'm an artist, I draw things that show how i feel, it really helps me maybe it could help you too. Just try it and if you need more help email me.

Answer 13

drink beer

Answer 14

I'm going through the same thing. I always cry for no reason. It's a sign of depression. Im not trying to be mean but maybe you should go to a counsler or something. It really helps!!

God bless you!

Answer 15

Okay Sweetheart. First off you said it yourself. "We are young." Okay you probably don't want to hear this but I'm going to tell you anyways. Enjoy being young and if you really Love this guy then tell him how you feel. Now if it seems like he does not care about how you feel in this situation and the fact that all he does to you is hurt you and makes empty promises, LEAVE HIM ALONE FOR PETE SAKES!!!! He doesn't deserve a woman like you. You deserve a man that is considerate not only to his feelings but to yours as well. A real man will sit and listen to you what you need to say and when making a promise he will always fulfill it, and if he can't at the deadline he promises, he will make it up to you in 10 fold. This guy your in love with doesn't want to be just friends, he may want to use you as a crutch for the nights he can't get none from whoever he is trying to get with. I could give you all this advise, but it's on you to listen. Like I said, tell him what you are feeling and if you feel that his response is like he don't care, then it's time to move on and find your Knight in Shining Armor!! There are plenty of great fishes in the Sea, all you have on the end of your fishing pole is a little shrimp that always disapoints you. Throw it back and wait for the big catch. Hope this helps. Good Luck and God Bless!!!