How did you get over your exs? i need to get over someone

Question

the problem is that he was the first person i really cared for and went out with for a year. it ended because he cheated on me so i broke it off.

after that we were somewhat friends but then we had a fight because i found out that he lied about something... havent talked since then.

this was a month ago

i just found out that hes moving to colorado this thursday through one of my friends. when i heard it i thought id be happy not to ever see him again but i was angry that after everything.. there isnt even a goodbye, after all the sh*t i went through. it just ends up as nothing. and that he gets to have a new life and im stuck here. im 18 by the way

how do i get over this feeling. how did you get over yours?

Answer 1

only thing good for that is TIME, sweet old time, and its helps to move on and find someone else, and even with that, it still takes time,  Time heals every thing  

Answer 2

well  all i did was do the normel thiings i did and it gets al better :) just do what you normely do

like sun sets depres me so i stay away from them just kinda stay away from wh at makes u think about him . just be your self it wil al be better :) ul find a new guy or just be single  but yah hel wash out of your mind ina month or mayb a few weeks depedning on how much you loved him hope i helped.

Answer 3

I heard it takes half the time of the relationship to get over it, so if it was a one year relationship, it will take 6 months. Anyway, I suggest you promise yourself to always say yes to any social event you are invited to. even if it is a 3 year olds birthday party or a co-worker's party that you don't even like that much. Just get out of the house as much as you can and JOIN A GYM!!!!! The exercise will keep your stress hormones low. Good luck!  

Answer 4

ask your friends to take you to partys and go places where other dudes will be. Trust me they will take your mind off of them.

Answer 5

It is not easy to get over an ex no matter how bad it seems, since you have been spending lots of nice and intimate time together but I hope everything goes fine for you and that you find someone better than your ex.

Answer 6

do things that make u happy that usually helps me not think of them

learn to love urself. make new friends find new places to hang out just do things u never do.hes a jerk anyways he cheated on you u just gotta forget about him and move on