I'm in a particular strange situation. Ever since I was a child my parents have pounded into my head that I cannot and will not have s*x until I am married. It is 100% understanding why many should follow those guidelines because you should always have the comfort of knowing someone is there who won't leave you incase you become pregnant, and provides support. But as I grew older I feel like my parent haven't allowed me to make my own decision on not only this but many manners. I have been in an almost 3 years relationship with my boyfriend and we plan on getting married in the next couple of years. I made my own decision to lose my virginity to him because he is someone that I love and WOULD support me if I became pregnant. However I have to hide it from my parents who would probably disown me from the family if they knew we were having s*x. I don't understand why that can't just be supportive of my decisions. I don't sleep around, and I am in a very serious relationship. It wasn't even enjoyable the first couple times it happened because I felt like it was something dirty, not beautiful. As a parent, shouldn't you allow your child to make that decision on their own and provide them with proper precautions instead of ruling it out all together. I hate sneaking around my parents back, but I don't feel like it's very fair. Can anybody give me their respected opinions on this?
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