How did your husband's ex react to you having a child together?

Question

Just wondering...also, what were the circumstances leading to their divorce, did they have kids?

Answer 1

I am the husband.  The ex s**t a brick !   Thought it was ridiculous, still wont talk to the new wife and it's 13 years later.  The circumstances is that my new wife was our babysitter.  Jerry Springer here I come LOL

Answer 2

My (now ex) hubby's ex-wife always hated my guts and they had 3 children together.  When we got together the kids were 10, 8, and 5.  Because she couldn't move on with her life, she was always trying to make our lives miserable too.  In fact, that was in 1995, and she STILL hasn't had a boyfriend since!!!  Anyways, we were together for 3 years when I got pregnant.  She was constantly telling the kids that their dad loved me more than them, and that he was only going to care about the new baby and not them.  We were constantly reassuring them that it was not the case, and explained to them the difference in love between couples verses children.  His daughter was especially jealous...she used to hide these little pair of Nike shoes I had bought.  Everytime they would come up missing, I would ask her about them and she told me she didn't know what happened to them.  Then when she would leave from her visitation weekend, I would find them hidden in her bedroom!  I was soooo frustrated and worried that the kids were not going to like the baby.  But from the time I gave birth to their little brother, they took to him immediately!  They were always helpful and they still keep in contact with both myself and their brother although their father and I are now divorced.

If I were you, I wouldn't worry...it really will change everything once that cute lil' baby is here!!

Congratulations!

Answer 3

My husband & his exwife they have a child together (daughter) & divorced when the child was young. I believe they divorced because she was mean, bossy, cheating, didn't want to be a mother, he was trapped into being someone he wasn't, she was older, different interest, can't even cook, clean & care for him, my husband always says to me that she's a fukn b*tch. My husband & I have a son together. His exwife is ok. But I think initially in the beginning of my preganancy I didn't wanted to let them know until I started showing at 4 month, I felt that she going to be jealous or maybe curse me or something crazy like that but again I was pregnant & it was just my hormones being pregnant at that time making me think too much, I think she was jealous when she heard but then I could care less what she was thinking or saying. His ex was kinda old to have another baby & had done too many enhancements/tucks/lipo done to her body. She is ok with it life goes on. Afterall, her daughter has a half-brother which is my son. Its all about the children here thats all that matters.