My husband and I have been working on our relationship since he returned home. I found out that he has seen his "ex mistress" and I chose to not confront him. I let the anger build up and felt sad about it.
Last week, I finally broke down and we had a huge fight. It started out as a perfect day and we even made love. But something triggered in my mind, and I just went off on him. I was asking all kinds of questions about him and his ex, about him and I. He got really mad about it and I told him I didn't want to talk to him. He said we need to cool off and take a couple days off. He ended up going to a hotel, hasn't called me and I tried to call today but he wouldn't answer. I know his ego is hurt because of the things I said to him and now he is probably wondering why he even came home.
I want to make things right between us, but he won't talk to me right now. He is really stubborn and wants to avoid any kind of confrontation. I want to send him an email or write him a letter, but what should I say? I know I have a right to be hurt but I chose the wrong way to act out the pain. What now?
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