How do I ask her if she is one?

Question

I think my friend is a L*****n, there is no way of asking her, but I kinda want to know. If she is one I want to be there to support her. What should I do?

Answer 1

Why don't you just ask her? But be sure to have a reason as to why you think so. She may get mad at first or she might not and be relieved to say it to someone.

Years ago I was shocked when a mutual friend asked another if he was g*y? I was raised not to inquire on such a personal topic--not my biz, so to speak. But I found that, in fact, many g*y friends appreciated a clarifying question and WERE NOT offended. After I asked the first time of someone, it was never uncomfortable again.

Answer 2

just ask her. yeah sure it will be awkward but you wil know.