How do I ask my husband to take Viagra?

Question

I love my husband with all my heart, but of late he's not been able to perform if you know what i mean. He's been to the doctor and they suggest more exercise and better diet, but its been over a year. I have been on some chat sites to help satisfy my needs but really want my husband back. I feel embarrassed to talk to him about it in case he sees me as being selfish

Answer 1

HE realizes the problem, more than YOU do. He is aware I'm sure, and apparently is not willing to do anything about it. Talk to him, embarassed or not, and resolve it quickly, before you cheat...once you cheat, the marriage is finished.

Answer 2

You need to talk to him, keeping it to yourself will cause more problems. Why would he think you are being selfish? He should have ask his doctor and went to a urologist already, or is he to limberest to talk about it also?

Answer 3

He's your husband. You should not be embarrassed about talking to him about anything. Communication is key.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

My friend offered me Viagra.  He said he couldn't take it because it made his heart race.  I said, "And you want me to take it?"  So, I ground it up into a powder and snorted it.  I had a stiff neck for four hours.

Answer 6

I guess you and your husband aren't very close and have problems with communication, if you are too embarrassed to tell him you need s*x and he is the only one you want to have s*x with and you would like him to take Viagra so the two of you can enjoy s*x together.

That's a shame, because either you overcome your embarrassment or accept being in a sexless marriage.

rschroth....you are way too funny!!! You have my vote! Lol

Answer 7

viagra is not the answer, i think it will be better if he just follows the doctor instruction and with time you will see the improvement, with viagra comes another problem.

Answer 8

What does being on sites to satisfy my needs mean? If it means what I think it means, then why aren't you embarrassed by that but embarrassed to ask your husband about taking viagra? Of course you should ask him to.??  There's nothing wrong in that. It's better then getting your needs met else where.

Answer 9

why don't you get it for him, Ive used it lots of times, it gives you a little bit of help when you need it.

Answer 10

Just keep in mind, once they start viagra, they start feeling big and strong again, and it's led many men into cheating where they wouldn't/couldn't before. Maybe you should be thankful for what you have...but of course, most people want something else. The grass, trust me, isn't greener as you might think.

Answer 11

I think you talk to him about it, get flirty it may spring him into life, even consider toys maybe.

Answer 12

make the pill into powder n put it in his food or w.e n then later when ya have all that s*x u want n he tells u like omg why is it like this im sure he;s gon b pleased tell him... n if he gets mad be like i just wntd to try it out bt he's ur husband u should b able to talk to him about anything

Answer 13

You guys are married...dont be embarrassed to talk to him. It is not selfish to want s*x, even if he "cant" he should want it too...it's human nature. Bring it up in a joking way if you don't want to confront him.

Answer 14

It is not all about him.

Get some books are read up.

Foreplay more and more, when you are ready, feel it, whey you are ready, have him go inside,

read up on it..

and stay off the internet for that c**p.  coz you are being selfish, and flirting and are indirectly causing your relationship to go sour.

Answer 15

Set up a romantic eveing, candlelit dinner at home, or a fruit platter in bed with candles, something like that, and tell your husband to be home at a certian time, ready for a nice night with his wife, and to expect the unexpected.

Whilst you have set the scene and you are kissing and holding each otherm show him the female pill and the male pill, tell him not only do they act as an aphrodisiac so you are both full of lust for each other but both of you will be able to go on for hours.

This way you are not pin pointing him out like he is the problem in the bedroom, you are doing it together, if it then works, and he enjoys it, he will have no problem with doing it on his own, or you could say you have taken yours already if he asks. He will then get back into the routine or mindset that he cannot wait to get his back to the bedroom and start pleasing her again.

Good luck xx

Answer 16

just buy them, once you have them in hand he is going to be so curious about using them. If he has already gone to the doctor well then he is not closed to the whole ides of improvement in the bedroom.

have fun!!!

Answer 17

You can get something called (the little blue pill) basically viagre from Ann Summers. So while you're there pick up some s**y undies and suggest it as something new and different. Hopefully he will be excited about the opportunity