How do I avoid a fight?

Question

This girl wants to fight me and I don't want to, what can I do? It's over a guy.

She plays sports and stuff and she is a tomboy and I am really scared of her. I can't fight or defend myself. I don't want to get hit I will cry my head off!!!

I cant believe this is happening we are ladies we are not supposed to use violents right?? What do I do?

Answer 1

try to act like shes not even born..........if that doesnt work then ask if you can just talk this out and that you dont want to fight her because its point less, if she doesnt give up just walk and and say that its not worth even if its true

talk to the guy that you two are fighting about and tell him that he has to choose between her or you

dont touch her, she coul charge sexual ascalt (how ever you spell it) if she touches you then tell your parents and they can sue or go to court if its that bad

good luck

Answer 2

well i know how you feel it has happend to me what i did was tryed to avoid her don't try that and you should try and go to talk to her see if you guys were friends neither of you should have this guy pick some one else try talking to this guy alone and ask him who he likes more... how old are you?write mre back i hope this helped a bit

Answer 3

Sometimes you have to stand up and be counted, she knows youre scared thats why she's pushing for a fight. You have a right to defend yourself, use it.Kick to the shins and the knees and stamp on her foot with hard heels,  Grab her hair and you will control her shoulders and body, dont be scared, just see it in your mind and go for it, it comes naturally, but never cover up and fall on the ground, stay on your feet, block and kick to the shins, or knees and dont back off till youve dropped her on her ***. thats the only way out of your predicament.  

Answer 4

It's simple.

Tell the guy!

Does he want a tomboy or a lady?

Let him choose. If he picks her, then he's not right for you anyway.

If he picks you and if she still wants to fight you, he will be there for you.

You shouldn't have to go around worried about some ****** wanting to bully you.

Answer 5

hi jenn well first of all remember you are a bigger person if you walk away, tire and reason with her and remember if it gets out of hand call the cops that dos int make you a coward it makes you sensible

Answer 6

You may be scared but you do need to stand up for you're self.Tell her you are not gonna fight with her over a lousy boy that he isn't worth it.And if she wants to still fight to go fight for something worth fighting for and that the boy isn't the one worth the fight.I was never a fighter but i was forced into it once and am ashamed to say i put the girl in the hospital with 2 broken ribs and they were the only to punches i threw.Good luck was on my side and i will say no one bothered me after that....Good luck But i agree with you violence doesn't solve the problem

Answer 7

some girls are just trashy and want to fight like the whole world is their trailer park to act like white trash in.

tell someone who is tougher than you, its not tattling if this girl is as manly as you make her sound.

Answer 8

oh dear! well, try and get her on her own without her friends and people around (they could act as an audience) and basically sit her down and TALK to her in a polite manner. Talk about the situation and clear things up with her. If she gets aggresive, just calm her down and say that all you want is a nice chat and tell her that a fight won't solve your situation! hope this helps!

Answer 9

I do not want to give a lot of advice because in seventh grade this kid in my class started punching me and I tried to defend myself the best I could without really fighting back.  But then it got really out of control and I decided to fight back and I slammed him up against a dry-erase board in the lunch room.  Amazingly, there were no teachers in the room during the fight, but as soon as it was over they rushed in.  The only thing I did was slam him up against that board in self-defense but I still got a detention.  Although, he got a two-day suspension my school sucks when they hand out punishments.  I think the only reason I was punished is because I am white and he was black and someone would have made a big deal out of the racial differences.

So, if you're not going to fight in school and you think you can win go ahead fight.  But you shouldn't be scared of her.

Answer 10

hai you know what is yoga.

daily practice yoga for your mind fresh and say that girl also.

pls do not fight. if she want to fight then you simply smile and say not yet next time. and next time just you give her a red rose,

then her mind get cool , and she want your friendship too.