How do I be more out-going?

Question

I'm just wondering how I can be more out-going. (a funner person instead of the quiet guy)

BUT the funny thing is... when I'm with friends (whom I know well) I'm very out-going. However, if I'm like at a party where I don't know any1 very well... I get RLY quiet... How do I fix this?

*basically what i'm saying is, if I'm with another guy who im good friends with, I'm very out-going even if i dont know the rest of the people...

Story: A girl I know pretty well invited me to a party but I didn't know any1 else there very well except for the girl. I was very quiet the whole party...

- i only become out-going if im with another GUY...

Answer 1

the reason your not "outgoing" is because you afraid of making youself look stupid.

if you dont know most of the ppl there so what if you look stupid or dorky or whatever aslong as you had a good time dont care about what others think.

Answer 2

I don't think it's you.  It's the situation you set yourself in.  Don't go to parties where you only know one person.  Parties aren't the only settings to get acquainted with new people anyway.

Answer 3

well just try to talk to other people and make them laugh like you do with your closer friends just try do little by  little ....