How do I beat someone up 3 years older than me?

Question

I'm 13, and she's 16. I'm pretty small compared to her, but she's crazy she doesn't care.

Anyway, story told - I got drunk one night, she was annoying me and I said some things I shouldn't have said to her and now she hates me. I was in a mosh pit one time and she was in it too, so she started kicking at me. I kicked her back and was doing just what she did to me - pulled her hair, kicked her in the vajay. She didn't do anything else and I don't like using my fists to solve problems, in fact I hate it so I didn't give her my full potential.

One day I told my mom about this, and she told me to send the girl that hates me a civil letter sorting things out, saying that a 120-pound girl drunk off of almost 8 ounces of hard liquor can't control herself but she still doesn't get it. In fact she hated on me back.

So she keeps sending me hatemail, and I'm not one to tolerate that so I retaliated over MySpace messages and now she's going to try to kick my *** again. There's no talking her out of this.

So now that we've established she's never going to change her mind on beating me up the next time she sees me, how do I beat her?

She's stronger than me, but not by much, so I'm thinking maybe I should start working out to get stronger. What do you think?

Also, if I end up not getting stronger at all, would speed overcome strength? Well if so I'm pretty slow and she's pretty fast, I mean once she starts throwing punches at me I can't really move! Any tips on how I can increase my speed?

Thanks.

By the way - please don't preach to me about drinking underage, I know it's illegal and I've stopped drinking. Completely. I'm done with that, it's bad.

Answer 1

im no expert on girl fights but from watching my gf she will prly try to pinch you a lot which hurts so put her in a hold (not the neck please) like locking her arms together into a knot  

Answer 2

Well I believe violence is never the answer, but have you thought of taking a karate class, this way you can learn how to fight without fighting, which means you can learn moves and blocks, where your attacker is doing for more harm to themself than you ever throwing a punch.  Say she grabs on to your shirt, you can use a simple arm technique that takes her down and in pain by you using very small pressure to get her off of you.

Karate has been taught for generations in how to use an opponents body against themself with very little effort on your part.

I am a big guy, 6'0 240lbs and have been taken down by women 5'0" weighing 100lbs easily in karate class, because of what they were taught and defensive techniques they learned.

Karate BTW is a great self confidence builder and teaches you respect for not only yourself but others as well.

Answer 3

I dont truely believe in violence but if this is for self-defense i guess it's ok. u gotta watch her first see and study your enemy. before u see her just think about her weaknesses. so if u throw strong fast punches will she be able to counter it? since your slow, let her come to you. dont come to her and never let her put in a troubled position. if u ever fight put your hands up like the boxers you see on t.v. bend your knees(for balance in case she throws hard punches you can balances down). this is where u start fighting. give a couple of jabs as always the the head is the most important part and neck. if u punch her neck, it'll slow her down a bit to breath. at that exact moment kick her v****a real hard and one jab in the stomach. after that jab upper cut her face. and punch  her in the stomach one more time. remember let her come to you just stand and position yourself and get ready  or give her quick fast jabs at the stomach face. mix things up a bit so she wont predict where you'll hit.dont ever let your gaurd down and think about beating her. so wait and punch into the openings. hope it helps. I SERIOUSLY ADVISE YOU NOT TOO you might go to jail but in a case of self defense you should.  

Answer 4

despite what the person above me said, don't wear glasses. to some people it don't matter if you wear glasses, they'll hit you in the face if they wanna. that's why you always put your fists up. make sure they're at about the level of your eyebrows. when throwing a punch make sure to twist your arm and pivot your hips. it'll make your punch more effective. if you have long hair, put it up or wear a hat. girls like to grab in fights. do NOT wear baggy clothes.

Answer 5

Girl fights usually involve plenty of hair pulling, so first up shave your head.

To combat any wrestling manouvers she may have, cover yourself in vasoline. (If vasoline is too expensive, pig fat is a fine substitute.)

So that she doesn't hit you in the face, wear glasses, even thugs know the rule on that one.

If she's a body puncher, wear 5 or 6 sweaters (good thick woollen ones.)

She may be a kicker, so shin guards (hockey or soccer) should do the trick.

If this ruthless maniac still wants to attack you, use the skunk defense and s**t in your pants, nobody likes this, then she will go home and never bother you again.

I accept your thanks in advance.

Hey overrated, have you ever heard of sarcasm, why would anyone with a modicum of commonsense encourage a young girl to get involved in a street fight.

You are a mental case.

Answer 6

Only fight for self defence, jail and fines aren't any fun.

First assess her. Is she tall? use an uppercut on her chin. Does she have long hair? if so yank away. Do things to cause pain, not bodily damage. This will give her the means to clutch herself in pain and you to run.