How do I become less shy and more outgoing??

Question

ok, I'm like super shy....and I barely have any friends, there are a lot of people that I could probably be friends with, but I can't my self to talk to them. so what do I do? it's like whenever I want to talk to people I can't

think of anything to talk about

Answer 1

you must start pushing yourself to appreciate others.  when someone asks you a question, look into their eyes and smile.  just do it even if you don't know the answer.  then while you are still making eye contact, tell them something nice.  like 'i love the color of you eyes', or 'do you like school?'  then say something about yourself.  like, 'i don't know too many people here yet'.  then still while looking at their eyes and a little smile, ask them about themselves.  anything little.  everyone loves to talk about themselves and that way you get to know if you like them.  i'm sure if you make eye contact and smile, others will see you as friendly.  heck, you'll end up liking yourself more too.  this gets easier and easier as you practice.  have fun!