How do I become ok with this?

Question

I am very depressed, alone, and very shy. It's so hard for me to get up in the morning, let alone meet new people, and I am so sad I find it hard to get motivated to make friends. I have none at the moment, well, two people who don't have time for me. I love my boyfriend very much, and he has a lot of friends. It makes me so sad and feel so alone when he hangs out with them, and isn't there to talk/be with me. I want him to be happy, and I want him to have lots of friends. How do I learn to deal with this?

Answer 1

um if you have a boyfriend then how the hel cant u get frends?

Answer 2

I've been there. You need to learn to love yourself.  Once you do you will feel much better about yourself and gain some confidence.  This may sound lame, but if you force yourself to think of at least three things that you like about yourself each day, it can help you accomplish this.  In the meantime, try taking a Vitamin B supplement to help balance your mood.  If your depression is severe you may want to talk to a doctor.  

Answer 3

Maybe you have social anxiety?