How do I break up my neighbour's marriage so that I can have him all to myself? HELP PLZ???

Question

i'm in love with my neighbour! he is so hot!! i just turned 18 so i can be with him except he has a wife, and kids and stuff. how do i get rid of them so that he can be just mine? plz nothing crazy. i just need to make this work. should i tell his wife that we're having an affair? btw his kids are 19 and 21. so its not like im being a homewrecker.and dont answer if youre going to be rude or judgemental, thanks

Answer 1

Any man that age who sleeps with girls who "just turned 18" (p**n title, anyone?) is on the fringes of pedeophilia.  Are either of his kids girls?  He's having s*x with someone that any normal person would view as his child.  Eew.  You might think you're all grown up, but he doesn't.  He sees you as a child.  Younger than his own.  Eew.

And i'm really sad for you.  Why would you want this?  Were you molested?  Did your dad run away?  

If he wanted to leave his wife, he would.  He hasn't.  That means he doesn't want to.  He shares with her life, a family, a home, a retirement plan, and a million other things that he's been planning for since before you were a twinkle in your parents' eyes.  You have no idea what those things are or what it feels like to work for them for 20 years.  You've not even existed for as long as he's been building his marriage.  He's not going to give that up for some pedeophile fantasy he's enjoying at the moment.

And, dear, he's being a homewrecker. And so are you.  You are actively hurting other people.  His crime is worse, if you ask me, because he took vows, but you are not blameless.  If you get a man who cheats on his wife, then you become his wife, he'll cheat on you, too.  And you'll deserve all the pain.  He's not feeling pain.  He's getting everything he wants.

You can find a man who is all yours!  Get over the pedeophile and find a good boy of your own.  Find one who wants to be with you and you alone (this guy goes to bed next to his wife every single night.  not you.  never you.)  There is someone out there who is dying to meet you and fall in love with you.  Don't let him get away because you are wrapped up in a hopeless, unethical, dangerous cause.

Answer 2

im not going to lecture u on cheating! But this guy is way to old for u! If his children are older then u are i got a problem with that. I am a 29 year old woman and i wouldnt even go after him cause he is to old for me! He is just using u for s*x cause u are 18! Please just leave him be before u do get caught! Who knows what she could do to u!  

Answer 3

People aren't chattel you don't own this guy, he has a little thing call free will and if he wanted to be with you he would. It's sad that at eighteen you aspire to be nothing more than a home wrecker. You are a selfish cow, why not try thinking of the other woman or her children? And the only reason you want him is because he's "hot" Wow you're as about as deep as a puddle. If you have to resort to lying to get someone then obliviously he isn't worth having. You are a sad twisted piece of work and just remember what goes around comes around darling.

Answer 4

Actually that is being a homewrecker no matter how old they are. Dont be a w***e leave them alone.

Answer 5

its crazy, he wont want you, he already has everything that he probably wants, but give me your number and ill make you forget him.

Answer 6

hoe hoe hoe!  its not like a homewrecker or anything his kids are 19 and 21.  ur soo lame it should be even worse for his wife. dont ya think since shes been with the dude soo long.  ur so stupid. havent u ever thought what if im her age and my man does that to me??? ****** what goes around comes around and i hope it comes around to someone stupid like u.  

Answer 7

lol

Answer 8

You would be a home-wrecker if you became your neighbor's lover.  If that happens all I can say is "What Goes Around Comes Around".

Answer 9

Stop acating like a s**t and leave other womans men alone.  

Answer 10

HOW CAN I NOT BE JUDGMENTAL???? YOURE SICK AND YOU SHOULD BURN IN h**l< WHAT YOURE DOING IS TERRIBLE!!!

Answer 11

GET A LIFE YOU WH*RE

Answer 12

Wow u seriously need to get a life and find someone ur own age and who is not married. What type of woman are you that you feel the need to ruin somebody else's relationship?  

Answer 13

Listen w***e, you need help! You are a sick and demented!!!  

Answer 14

your'e never going to be happy in your life.

Answer 15

It's really his job to "get rid of them".  Also, it's possible that you're not the first affair he's had.  Alot of men stay with their wives year after year and have affair after affair.  The wife just looks the other way as they switch to new girlfriends.  Be careful you may get hurt.  

Answer 16

You need to find something else to ocupy your time,,, like college. Dont ask stupid questions about breaking up a marrige and then demand people dont be rude or judgmental... You are a homewrecker whethr there are kids involved or not...

Answer 17

As the saying goes~"Do unto others as you would want done to yourself!" How would you feel if the role was reversed? Have you ever thought that you are probably just a convenient "fling" to him & your're more than likely not the first & won't be the last? Hes obviously been married for a long time, judging by the age of his kids, & if he wanted to leave his family for you then why hasn't he? Grow up...you obviously have no concience & i wouldn't want to be on the receiving end of your Karma!

Answer 18

???

Answer 19

whate

Answer 20

Just hang out around the house and wear S****y clothes. Bring a banana so you can eat it slowly while he's watching. Dont worry about the wife and kids, he will leave them for you.

Answer 21

wow its easy bi**hes like you that ruin good relationships... Tell me how is it like to be a wh*re i bet ur really lonely. GROW THE h**l UP

and i was totally rude and u still read lol seriously not being rude anymore get a life and leave them alone

Answer 22

you really need to take a REALITY PILL. you staed that you didnt want any crazy answer BUT this is a CRAZY BUTT ?. GROW UP. live your life and you would be considered a HOMEWRECKER regardless of the age of the kids. please know that you are not the first piece on the side and you will not be the last, which means HE IS NOT LEAVING HIS WIFE FOR ANYTHING EVEN THE PIECES ON THE SIDE. GodBless

Answer 23

please leave him alone and go get some high school boys. you sure you guys are having an affair or is it all in your mind?

Answer 24

So, there are morals that people stick to for various reasons, to make society run smoothly, to do good to others so that others will treat them well in return, to build good karma, to get into Heaven, etc.

Having morals seems to be a good thing.

Breaking up a marriage for your own selfish gain is not a moral action.  It is also unlikely to be successful unless your neighbor is an idiot.

Answer 25

In the nicest way possible I am trying to say this..............

She is his WIFE

He chose HER

They are a FAMILY

You cannot destroy what HE DOESN'T WANT to give up

PS..

If he acts like it, he is just being friendly, or he just wants a piece of A$$ from you and it will all be over.

Don't get hurt and don't worry about him, you can find another HOTTIE that is not married....keep lookin'

Answer 26

This has got to be a joke right? How can you expect people not to be judgmental when this is just plain mental to want to do something like this. You need to control your hormones and find a guy that is available and not taken. I guarantee you will not be able to handle the stress and anxiety that would come from something like this. Please think hard and long about this and I hope that you will realize what a foolish idea this is.  

Answer 27

How exactly would telling his wife you are having an affair make him want you????

A home wrecker is a home wrecker no matter what kind of family you're breaking up.  You're a twit for even considering this, much less posting and asking for ideas on how to do it.  Grow up.

Not being rude and not being judgmental.  Just calling it like it is.

Answer 28

Find another man. For one he seems WAYYYY to old for you and he's MARRIED! Does marriage mean anything to you? Obviously not! NO matter the situation you'd be a homewrecker b/c you'd be breaking up a marriage. WHy would you want to do that? Put yourself in his wife's shoes for a second. How would you feel if your husband was sleeping with an 18 year old girl. Grow up and find someone your own age that isn't MARRIED!  

Answer 29

It's not a good idea to date a guy who's kids are older than you. And really it's a little extreme that you want to break a marriage up, how do you even know this guy likes you? And I know it's wrong but if you wanna break them up you must kill the wife! No, just kidding. You just shouldn't do it at all, it's wrong!

Answer 30

Don't... You are a home-wrecker no matter how old his children are.

If you don't want people to be rude or judgemental, don't sound like a wh*re!

Answer 31

imagine your next door neighbor stealing your father from your mother, especially being the same age as you.  don't you think that that's a bit weird, you are a home wrecker and you are very young, consider yourself to be trailer trash, only jerry springer guest would see this as being real, he doesn't want you you're giving him access to free coochie, a w***e at 18 must be nice. ms nasty.