Last year I miscarried, now I am 6 months pregnant with a perfectly healthy baby. I was feeling motherly at first, then at 3 months I had a bad flu and went through all the same symptoms of miscarriage. I was thinking that it probably was for the best.
Now, I am having difficulty with how I am going to feel when the child arrives.
When my son arrived 8 yrs ago, it took me about a month to realize that I was not just doing extreme babysitting and he was actually mine. Needless to say it took awhile for me to fall head over heels for him. Our family has been just the three of us since and I can't fathom another person in our lives. It almost repulses me at the thought of a baby at my breast, since my son is MY baby.
These feelings also worsened when I knew for sure I was having a girl. I am such a tomboy and do well raising little boys. I can't stand the clothes/accessories available for girls and all I can look at are boys clothes.
How do I get past this unease?
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