How do I change???????

Question

how do I change?

I guess this is kind of a stupid question.

But, people don’t take me seriously, im bullied, people judge me for everything I do.

My style is really random, if I like it, I’ll bye it, but I don’t really have a style, I normally just have baggy jeans and a jacket or huddie (if that’s a style?)

Im so board with my life, people hate me, im sick of it all……….

How do I change, and make people take me seriously.?

Answer 1

if people hate you that's there problem you should never try to change how u are or look for some one else but if it would make you happier then take a look at some styles that might interest you !!!

Answer 2

You do not have to change. You need to find something different like "new activities". Doing that you will be good & new you. Trust me!

-Your American Friend.

Answer 3

I'm the same. People judge me and bully me. If I had the choice I would wear my favourite pair of baggy jeans to my aunts wedding. Anyway, I can see know way out. Just deal with it and move on. Don't let it depress you. I've been there. Its not pretty. If you find life getting you down talk to someone, like your GP. Don't change for other people. Change for YOU!

Answer 4

dont change for no one.

You only feel like this because your being bullied, there jealous that you can be yourself and not a clone like them.

Answer 5

well your style is your own so that shouldnt matter to others.

how do you talk to people?  why do you think people really hate you?  maybe your just being paranoid.  Try looking at you from another persons point of view.  Do you speak respectfully to others, do you have manners, do you have a positive outlook or a negative outlook, do you moan alot or are you happy.... all these factors have an effect on how people relate to you.

Answer 6

Hiya. To be honest, you shouldn't change. But then lot's of people have said that and it isn't the answer you want. If you want me to tell you how to not be yourself, then I can. You just need to go to Abercrombie or a good fashioned store and get some cute outfits, where some make-up. You could also act really confident, loud and not care what anybody thinks. This will make you change. But it is worth changing if in the end it isn't going ot be you?

Answer 7

Don't change just be yourself. If people don't like you then surely it's there loss. You need to find people worthy of being friends with.

Answer 8

your answer does not lie in your fashion sense. it lies in your attitude. First of all what are you doing about the bullys. If you want to change you need to do something about that. Tell someone you trust. Dont be bullied. In this day and age there is help out there. why are you not seeking it and getting these bullys exposed for what they are. Start there. The way you dress has nothing to do with it.  

Answer 9

If you don't want to change, then don't. It's sad when people don't appreciate others for who they are. You might think other people look weird too - but you're too polite to say so. I was bullied for exactly the same thing, but now people accept me for who I am. If people can't do the same for you, they're the ones with the problem, not you.

Answer 10

yeah your emo/scene. dont bother changing just find friends that are like you