How do I convince my ex that it is important for her to let me see my boys?

Question

She has kept them out of state and even the court doesnt let me see them. I miss them and they miss me terribly. She says "they don't need you in their life."

Answer 1

Can't give you an answer until you answer this question. Why are the courts denying you visitation?

Answer 2

If the courts won't order it, there's got to be a reason. There are very few cases where the court won't permit/order visitation.

You need to convince the court, not your ex. If the court continues to not allow it - I imagine it really is for the children's own good.

Answer 3

go to court

Answer 4

Go to court and settle it. My parents divorced and it was so important to have my dad in my life I just wish he could have been there sooner. The courts will decide visiting days but it would be nice if yourex could stop beng stubborn. Write her a letter explaining how important the boys are to you and I know my brother became violent and angry due to not seeing his dad often. Its especially important for boysto have a male influence