How do I convince my mom that this is right?

Question

Okay, so a friend of mine wants to buy my iPod nano off me for $70, which is not bad, because my iPod is very used and is about 2 years old. It's still in good condition though.

I agreed to sell the iPod before asking my mom if it was okay, because hey, it's mine and i didn't think I needed her permission to sell my own stuff. But when I told my mom that I was going to sell it, she said "no" and that was the end of the discussion. When I asked why, she said because "it has sentimental value" and "You've had it for a very long time, how could you sell something I bought you" and that if I didn't want it anymore I could give it to my cousin.

But I disagree. I don't think an iPod can have sentimental value, since it's electronic. I could see if it was a family heirloom or something, like my grandmother's quilt or some jewelery. But it's not. And I would give it to my cousin, but I already agreed to sell it. I mean a deal is a deal right? Plus, I've sold a lot of stuff she's given me. How is this iPod different?

It's not like I NEED the money, I just want a new iPod and selling my old one is a better way to get rid of it. How can I convince my mom that my iPod is mine and I can do with it what I want? I don't want to sound bratty or anything, I just want her to understand my point of view.

***This is a very long question, sorry!!!

Answer 1

Maybe she feels bad because it took her a long time for her to actually get it for you and she spent alot of money on it.  

Answer 2

If you haven't already tell her you selling it to buy a new iPod, you want to upgrade. You should also say its best to get rid of it while it still working before it breaks or die on you. Then no matter how much "sentimental value" it has its worthless

Answer 3

You probably don't want to mix money and friends together.  I wouldn't sell something that was given to me, it's rude.  I know the money would be nice, and that you're mother's reasons "sentimental, had it for a long time"  aren't very good, but I honestly believe you should give it to your cousin free, or it's possible that she'll let you sell it on the internet, though I know you may not want to have to go to all the trouble.