How do I deal with a bad friend?

Question

My friend is the biggest hypocrite on the planet. Just because I hang out with my best friend, who she hates, she says I ditch her. I would include her, but she's "not allowed" to hang out with this other girl. She also calls me a liar, but I can tell when she lies to me.

These past few days at school she has completely ignored me and hung out with my friend Claire, and this other girl Kayde. Basically, she treats her friends like water, once she gets bored with them, she ditches them for someone else. [Once you finish the glass, you get another one if you are still thirsty]

I don't think it's right. She's not in any of my classes except for Choir at school, so it's pretty easy to ignore her. But when I see her, I just want to punch her in the face. How do I deal? Just hearing her name makes my blood boil.

Answer 1

OMG! So she reminds you of the ocean?----->She makes you sick, huh.

Just ignore her.

Answer 2

I wouldn't worry about it.  100 years from now,  no one will know the difference.

Answer 3

Tell her she is not being fair and if her attitude doesn't change thenu can't be friends.

Answer 4

How to deal with her? Don't deal with her at all..

Answer 5

sadsss

Answer 6

tell her your sick of being friends w/ her bcuz of bratty and rude attitude towards you.....

Answer 7

i think you should move on. she sounds very vindictive and nasty

Answer 8

I don't think she is being a real friend. My suggestion is if she's making you feel bad, then find a better friend who actually makes you feel good about yourself . I'm sorry if I didn't helped much, but I hope me reading your about your problem makes you feel a little bit better.

:)

Answer 9

punch her in the face and then boil her blood

Answer 10

just hang out with who you wanr

to hang out with if she tries takin

you off ur best friend puch her you

dont need sh*ty people like that

soon shell end up with no one to

hang around with

Answer 11

Hi Izzy,

You sound like you have had a rough time in school this past week.

I agree with you that your friend is being close minded and a little bit selfish. I'm not sure I understand why shes not allowed to hang out with your other friend.

What I can tell may or may not comfort you, but I hope it helps you understand. Sometimes in life there are things that are just out of our control.

It may not be easy but if you can try to just ignore your thoughts of anger. You know violence is not the answer. As always just be yourself and things will work out.

Take care and never give up!

Cella