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How do I deal with an obsessed friend?

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I met Haley two years ago. She seemed an okay girl until I started to notice she was copying me in a sort of way. She copied my clothes, style, the way I talk, my music style, you name it. And it was until my friend Katie moved back to our school that I noticed. Now I've been friends with Katie since we were drinking out of sippy cups, and I didn't know that Katie and Haley had a past together. (they used to be friends but then all of a sudden Haley loathed Katie's guts.) then that's when Haley started going a bit wild. Now I'm flattered that I'm an inspiration, but it shouldn't get to the fact you should COPY everything I do. I've had this happen to me a few times but Haley went hog wild nuts with it. She copied every single thing I did. I'm an artist, and I love to draw and I want to do it for my career, She's never drawn a thing in her life and then ALL of a sudden she likes drawing and wants to be an artist too. (now to me that's quite offending stealing my dream.) and it got to the point to where she started going through my things because wanted to copy me to the last detail. (like having an innocent look in my book bag to see what kind of books I'm into or my new art projects so she can do something similar. or taking my MP3 trying to have an innocent look at what kind of music I'm into.)

For a while I stopped hanging with her and started hanging with Katie, and Haley admitted to me that she got jealous saying that "that fat *** stole my friend." and threatened that she was going to try and take all "friendship privileges away from Katie" and that I was "her's".

Now I've confronted her about her copying habit and for a while she started being more honest with me, but then her habit starts kicking in a few times, but I honestly don't know how long I can take such obsessive behavior.

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  1. oh wow... at least im not alone... i hav the same problem... but my she's not my friend... i dont really like her for that... and she's a b$%^& well, yeah... at least urs borrows ur stuff, mine steals... anyways... im past that stage... wat i did was i destroyed her.. i confronted her about it and she just ignored it so wat i did was i went to her house told her parents about it and she got in trouble... but that didnt stop her.. so one day, she came up to my locker and wanted to take a poster i had... i snapped and like scratched her face and her arms... my nails are kinda long... and ever since, she never came near me or ever copied me again... right now, i get a blue binder, she gets a way different binder as long as its not similar to mine... i guess that fight scared her off..


  2. just nint to her and say stuff like

    i like people who are original and unique and they dont copy ppl and act them selfs its more fun that way but dont say it meanly :] goodluck

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