My grandmother was in the hospital for 4 weeks with an unexplained illness. Her heart stopped and she stopped breathing, they didn't know if there was brain damage, or what brought on these symptoms, but she seemed to be getting better after a week. They took her off her ventilator and blood pressure medication, and she started to be able to talk, although she was very weak. She suddenly had another heart attack, but again, they brought her back and she seemed to be recovering again, until they rushed her into surgery because of severe gastrointestinal swelling. They found that 6 feet of her small intestine was essentially dead (which is 50% of her small intestine), they removed it and separated the large and small intestine until the swelling went down and they could re-attach the two organs.We were told after the surgery that when they went in, they hadn't expected her to be able to pull through the surgery after all the trauma her system had been through, which made us very hopeful that she would be strong enough to recover. The second surgery was the next day, they found that there was still too much swelling, so they scheduled yet another surgery for 2 days later. During the 2 days in between, she was very responsive to our voices and our touch, she tried to speak on several occasions. When they did the 3rd surgery they found that her whole small intestine was dead, which meant that they could do nothing more for her than keep her out of pain until she passed, as you can't live without the small intestine because it takes nourishment out of food (which is how the dr explained it to us). She passed 3 1/2 hours later, without pain, as if she just went to sleep for the surgery and never woke up. She died on August 20th, her funeral was the 25th, but I still can't come to terms with it. I just feel like I can go down to her house and she will still be there baking bread on Saturday morning, or a pie on Sunday night. I feel like I am just having a nightmare and I just want to wake up from it. She can't be gone, she still hasn't seen me get married and have kids, she is supposed to be around for that! I have never lost someone so close, and there was so much hope for her to recover as she always did before (she is always in and out of the hospital getting surgeries for different ailments). Please help me!
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