Ever since my sixteen years old son moved back in with me and my husband after disappearing with his father at ten years old. Things have been nothing but a problem.
To start with, my son’s father would put him in boxing or wrestling class to keep him busy after school and on the weekend. So now my son is always mad at everybody because we will not let him box and he cannot get in wrestling until school start again. So he has been sneaking out a lot lately. It’s creating havoc for everybody.
Other big problem is, he’d often disappear. Sometime we would look for him then make him come home. But he has always been very secretive about where he trains and we haven’t been able to figure it out yet. So it’s really frustrating for all of us. He’s really fast and can run far for long time. Other day when we left the house, my husband realized he forgot something so we come back home. We were shocked to find him already running on his way to somewhere. My husband says that my son has run almost two miles in less than ten minutes. Other thing that is really getting on my husband is, sometime if we try to follow him so we can find out where he is training. He would often stop in some place and wait for a bit then continue, make a loop around block sometime even a couple times, and other things. So we believe he always know if someone is following him so we had no luck with finding out where he train at.
Just as we thought he gave up on trying sneaking out of the house, we found a hidden notebook that hold bunch of portfolio of professionally done pictures. We found out he got a job as a model without telling us. A lot of his modeling pictures include him being topless and one was even artistic nude of him from side/behind revealing most of his hips and just shy of his butt. I don’t like the idea of him doing all of this while he’s still so young. He’ll not even talk about any agent that hired him. He says that pictures are used for some new clothes company, a sunglasses company, and other things. He says the nude one was for a lotion company and they paid him large amount of moneys because he have exactly what they were looking for. When we asked him about this, he says he no longer do it because he’s too skinny now.
My son who is 5’11 has gone down from 160 to 145 lbs because he doesn’t like my cooking. I and my family don’t eat very much meat. We mostly eat soup, salad, yogurt, and other things. If we do have meat, we eat very little of them and we serve it about once every week or two. My son is always complaining he’s hungry then barely eats and even if he did eat, he’d still say he’s hungry. He’s always in nasty mood because of this. He also wants to cook but we don’t want to hear him in the kitchen at night and he’s also a messy and slow cooker. He’d take hours to cook fancy things such as chicken stuffed with ham and cheese, roll stuff in meat, and other complex expensive dish.
My son also is a Buddhist and refuses to take down his Buddha statue in his bedroom. He also refuses to attend church with the family or even give it a chance. He even made my oldest daughter really question the whole bible thing a couple times when she tried to talk with him about Jesus and God.
I don’t know what to do any more. I’m getting so fed up with this.
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