I was a good and loving mom,till drugs and alcohol became more and more important than doing the right thing for myself and my son.I had a loving husband,a new home,a car and:my freedom!I lost it all.Husband run away,CPS took my son a 2nd time,house went in foreclosure,car got impounded,I went to prison and got deported.In prison,I took advantage of every program there was,to get my son back.In prison I realized what I had done.h**l broke loose when CPS started talking about adoption.His grand mom in the States got denied after all,my parents in Germany got on it,on being approved,to get my son,to raise him in Germany.Everything was fine with my son (4 years old),til 4 weeks after he´s seen his Mamie for the last time,at the CPS office.He started to act out,would jell and cuss and cry,because his Mamie wasn't´t there anymore,the one that he loves so much,and no one there,to let him know,that Mamie still loves him and she will come back to him,but right now, she is in "Timeout" for a little bit.That´s when I had gone to prison.I never hit my son,but I yelled at times a lot.I never ever backhanded him in his stomach,so hard,that he threw up.I never locked him in the closet for day´s and left the house!!!My son and I were together 24/7,ever since he was born and his dad went to prison when he was 3 mo old.He got sentenced to almost 12 years.All these story's are from people,that didn't know any better than talk BS and lies.My son had a habit of drinking warm chocolate milk and right after that,to play with the dogs or run arround,so that he made him self sick.And I know in my heart,that my ex neighbours were the once that said that I would lock him in the closet,because there was a situation,were the windows were open and I had to go somewere and my son wouldn´t listen,so I told him,that if he doesn´t wanna go,he can stay at home,but I have to lock him in the closet.I did,for a moment,to teach him a little lesson,and it worked.Now he is with my ex´s ex(they have a daughter together).After my son finally got my letters,4 mon. later,he started acting out again.I wonder why!?After all this time,just abuanding him,not wanting him anymore,of course he´s mad,he dosen´t wanna have anything to do with me,that´s how I would feel,if I were my son!!!!Instead of explaining him,what´s going on,they have him see a Psychologist.Posttraumatic stress disorder,with reactive attachment disorder,twice a month!And after only 2 weeks back in Germany,I got me a job,an apt.,got enrolled in a substance abuse program,classes,drugtesting etc..And now,my services with CPS got terminated,next hearing is in Nov.,I never had a fair chance,to see the Jugde,to justify myself.My son is 6 now,I haven´t seen him in 2 years,no contact what so ever.......How could I ever let this happen?????So,what do I do now????
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