I work in a really small office, and have been here for about three months. I'm really happy with the company and the job while I'm at work, but everyone else here are like, really good friends or something and LOVE spending time with each other after work (most are single and really into sports and such). They're great people for having to be around all day, but in social environments, we just have nothing in common, and I get really bored and just want to go home and have my personal time. I've gone to two social outings (one was mandatory, and one was a quick happy hour after work on Friday) and because they have happy hour every week on Fridays, I always get offers to go, but I end up declining, thinking of excuses like, "I have plans," or "We're meeting up with other friends." Sometimes it's true, and sometimes not, but I would rather put an end to the constant excuses and come up with a polite way to say, "Hey, I love you guys while I'm here, but I like to leave right after work to be with my own friends and fiance." I feel bad, but I always dread Friday afternoons because I know I'll have to come up with some excuse, and I feel really guilty ... but it's Friday for God's sake, and I like to do my own thing, you know? Even if you don't have any advice for me, I'd like to hear what you think about the situation. Thanks in advance!
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