How do I difference if im in love or if im obsessed?

Question

Theres this girl in my class, she arrived this year like in march...anyway, I like her a looooot, told her but she doesnt feel the same way about me, we are super friends though

Ive been thinking too much about her and ive been trying to get over her but I can't. Im way too happy to know that she loves me as a friend, but cant help the feeling of sadness inside...

Is this love or am I just obsessed?

Answer 1

love. obsested is like a stalker.

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Answer 2

I think you need to move on...

SInce she doesn't feel the same way about you, put your energy into someone who does.

Answer 3

its not love. but its not obsessions either. let me explain.

your not in love, you cannot even begin to understand what love is considering your age, (im assuming by class your somewhere between the age of 13-22, something like that) people like you, and me, and many other teens and young adults do not know what love really is. you may think you love her, but ultimatly, its just a crush that will easily go away.

obsession on the other hand, is not what you have. that would be like, you drive past her house to see if shes in the window so you can see her. thats obsession. or when your playing a video game and you see the word ben, and you think 'that rhymes with gen, oooh im in love'. thats more like obsession.

now more on how to help you, ive had this problem before, pretty much this exact one without the telling her part, (this was about 3 years ago) anyway, it will be best to just get over her. and you might be thinking, how do i do that? its not that easy, the best thing to do, is two things, cut yourself off from her, E.g if you want to call her, dont, go do something else to take your mind off her. and try to find someone else, it will make getting over her a whole lot easier if you have someone else to focus your attention on.

all in all, its not easy, it takes effort, but if the situation is really that bad, you should have no troubble trying to get over her.