How do I find a private blog about me? Then sue?

Question

I'm in desperate need of help, I just don't know what to do. An ex-coworker is sending people a link to a private blog, with a password, that's about me. She's destroying my life... she harrassed me to the point of a nervous breakdown, and now she's started a blog with details about terrible things I've experienced in my life so people can make fun of me. She is also telling people how to upset me, like taking the rubber piece off my pen when away from my desk. She made sure I overheard bits of conversations she had right in front of me, about me and exactly what I was doing at that moment, but she denied when I asked her about it to work out our differences. She is the DEVIL. She knows I was crying every day in the bathroom, on medication, and seriously depressed--this seemed to empower her even more! You would think she'd have felt guilty for pushing me over the edge, but she did it every day with a smile. My boss and HR took her word over mine. I quit, and got a new job a few months back. I am now again on serious medications just to survive each day, and even that is barely getting through. This will follow me anywhere I go for the rest of my life. How do I find this private blog, short of offering a cash reward? I've looked and looked, with no luck.

If anyone has any useful tips, please share. I am desperate.

Answer 1

sometimes you justhave to cut you losses  - probably best just to move as far away as possible  

Answer 2

I feel for you, please try this site

http://www.stalkingvictims.com/home.htm

Answer 3

Sorry I can't help you here but good luck and I hope this person gets what they deserve in return!

Answer 4

You can sue her in moral court if what she is saying is wrong, incorrect and she is using slander to defame your character. Then you can sue your old job because of this gossip that was going on. You will need to PROVE your emotional distress caused from her actions... that should be no problem as long as your doctors can back it up. The more support from people with good titles the stronger the case. If you want to find out about the blog then befriend someone who has the link... even without the blog I would still sue the B***H