How do I forgive after being hurt over and over?

Question

I am in a situation where I believe my fiance is changing, but he continues to make bad and stupid decisions that hurt our relationship. He feels the need to always please someone, and he thinks he makes me happy when he doesn't get along with his baby mamas, when it's totally the opposite. He comes from a totally different backgound than I do. He loves me and I really know that. But I do I know if he is with me because he wants to rather than maybe he just doesn't know how to break it off?

Answer 1

Break it off and let time cause the change your seeking from him, if he see's what he is losing then maybe he'll make a honest change, if he don't then you have already made the first step towards moving on with your life.

Answer 2

Have a good heart to heart talk to him about it before you take a step further in your relationship and then take it from there. He probably wants to talk it out but doesn't know how to ask you.  

Answer 3

you need to sit down and talk to him if he does not listen and value your opinion now he will never value your opinion at all  

Answer 4

If you aren't happy with the way he treats you and the relationship then move on.  He obviously takes you for granted and you have to draw the line somewhere.

Answer 5

Time to move on.  NO man is worth our feelings.  There are nice guys out there, believe it or not. You just won't find them staying with the *** you're with.

Answer 6

You don't if it is over and over break up with him!