***How do I get a Crush to Notice Me?***?

Question

To start I'm an Indian girl. I'm kinda smart and stuff. Lots of people tell me I'm cute and stuff but that's besides the point.

Okay, now, there is this guy, he's nice, sweet, sensitive, and not one of those hot shots that think everyone's after them. He's half African- American, half white. (think chris brown cause he looks just like him!) Obviously, lots of girls like talking to him. I already know a girl in my class that likes him. I have a huge crush on him, though. I wonder if he notices me more than others or its the regular. I want him to notice me not like the other girls that talk to him. I talk to him and try flirting but I don't think he gets it, yet. I'm only in my first class with him that I get to talk to him.

How do I give him some kinda hint or something? I'm kinda shy and he is too so I wouldn't suggest something too dramatic. How do I get him to notice me more and start talking to me more?

Also, one of my friends really likes him, too, but if I ask him or he asks me out, will she be really mad at me? (my school is made of gossip)

Thank you soooo much if you answer my question!

Answer 1

I know its corny but just be yourself and if he truly likes you then he'll notice you. because if you act different for him to notice you and then he gets to know the REAL you he may not like it. Honestly this is great advice in the long run. Hope this helps xx

Answer 2

Just talk to him as a nomal friend. Don't jump into the deep end without learning how to swim first right? You'll find character in people with the relationships you build with them. Shouldn't force it on yourself..if he doesn't like you like that, then so be it. Or else your going end up hating him for not noitcing you at all.  

Answer 3

tell him how you feel sweetie

Answer 4

i dont think ur friend would get mad if u asked him out bc ur friend isnt goin out with him at the moment. as for gettin him to notice u, guys nowadays are fine with girls askin them out so go ask him out. do somethin u both would enjoy but if ur scared of him not goin for that, ask him that the two of them should study together for that class ur in.

Answer 5

Well for me I'm a guy, and I notice a girl by just being herself. Not trying to come on to hard. Just go and have a regular conversation, leave all of the 'boyfriend/girlfriend' stuff out. And just talk about random things.

Answer 6

Just relax and be yourself.  Try asking him if he wants to meet you somewhere outside of school; park, library, get a soda.  That will give you a little time away from the others, so that you can both talk more.  I wouldn't worry too much about your friend, because if everybody did that all the time, there wouldn't be any relationships.  And which gossip would you rather hear, that you are seeing the guy you really like, or that somebody else is seeing him?  Have fun and good luck.  

Answer 7

talk to him. no games maybe a few flirting tips and go for it! good luck!

Answer 8

well just talk to him... generally thats the only way... but dont be afraid of rejection...

Answer 9

Well if your kinda smart way are you asking us. dum dum.

Answer 10

uhm...

okay ithink you should just go for it!

dont be shy,

some guys like girls who go after wat they want,

maybe thats wat hes waiting for from you.

you know wat imean?

cause you cant wait for him to notice you,

some guys dont know wat they want [lol]

because like you said,

theres other girls in his way.

Answer 11

well you can bug him alot like ask for a pen and try to se if he dsnt qet suin help him;;uhm drop ur pen and make him pik him up;;smile alott and laf datsz all i qot

Answer 12

You should always be semi friends before starting a relationship so in that case you can know more about them than ... actually just going out with him, so just talk to him be friends frist, give him signs that you like him, and if he likes you back he'll show you in a way!