How do I get and keep my hubby interested in s*x....?

Question

I want to change things up, we already do the dirty texts, I wear tons of lingerie I have lost about 60 lbs in the last yr., I send him pics to his cellphone of stuff I'm doing, I've shown up at work and we've done it, I go out in dresses with no underwear...but we talked the other day, and one of my big issues is i want more actual s*x. We have phenominal s*x on the weekend, sometimes like all nite, but it's only on the weekend for the most part. I like masturbation, but it isn't cutting it. My s*x drive is through the roof rite now, and when we talked he said we need to make it more interesting. We are on opposite shifts, and he is a little older, so what else can I do. We have a great emotional connection, and talk and share alot of interests...I just need to know how to get him excited about actually being with ME...you know, like making it so exciting for him that he can't wait to get up and be with me during the week as well as the weekend...

I am 5'8 154 lbs, and he is 40, I am 33

Answer 1

Tell him you will be ending your marriage if he doesn't start acting like a husband !i

Answer 2

Viagra, cialis..that sorta thing..He is at that age where he needs a little help to get it up girlfriend..Of course he is not gonna tell you but yeah, he needs some little pills to bring The Wood on demand. Otherwise your're only gonna get some boom boom when his c**k is in working order.. yep.

Answer 3

my husband loves when I wake him up to oral s*x, then when he wakes up I jump on him and ride him until he cant take it any more. 6 years married and he still loves it.

He also like when i put on black stalking with a uniform. so i go to the costume shop and get a few a year. Police ambulance nurse anything they have that i don't already own.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Well you see, I think your problem is that you are not leaving anything to his imagination. You should try role playing and dressing up in certain things or simply try being more romantic than sexual. Cook him a meal, have candle lights, take a long bath together, massage each others body's. Kiss and touch very sensually and slowly.

Well Good luck

Answer 5

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Answer 6

You need to get a dog.

Answer 7

The age difference is in significant. I would suggest redirecting your energy to something else. Don't give up what you have already of course (lucky him) but you can experience a different kind of high which will be as satisfying doing something you are passionate about.

You have to much time on your hands.  

Answer 8

You are in the middle of your sexual peak, and you need to explain that to him. He loves you, and he will understand your need. However, at the same time, understand his needs to kiss and cuddle and not be put under so much pressure to constantly perform.