How do I get him to go down south?

Question

Me and my fiance have been together almost 2 years, s*x is awesome. He has only went down on me about 10 times since we have been together. I shave, keep everything all neat. I even made a bet with him over a preseason game, and If my team won he had to go down. I LOST! I thought It would be a hint. I have asked him about it in quick conversation but he sorta blows it off and grabs my boob or something.

Answer 1

There is a wonderful little number

'69'

Or hey you could simply say in a s**y voice "I need you to eat my p**sy"

Answer 2

wash it, and flavor it with something he likes.

Answer 3

I will be honest with you, many guy's love getting a B.J but don't like going down on a woman, no matter how clean it is and even if it's shaven.  I love a good clean woman that shaves, and I will keep my head buried until she gets off, ot may take 5 minutes , it may take 15-20 minutes,   I think it is very s**y to please a woman down there,  

Answer 4

He refuses to do it for you, but you still do it for him.  So why should he change?  Selfish people like him will only wake up if you give them a dose of their own medicine.

Answer 5

try 69 position

Answer 6

Don't go down on him until he goes down on you. Stick to your guns. Say what you mean and mean what you say.  I bet he will go down on you then.....

Answer 7

Some people simply aren't interested in giving oral, but if you plan on marrying him, you need to tell him that it bothers you.  He's a man - maybe he doesn't notice your signals or realize it bothers you.  He may also be nervous and lack self confidence about it.  Talk to him and find out!

Answer 8

this man knows not what he has. is he crazy?

Answer 9

when ya bout to do tha d**n thang do foreplay and get like whipped cream n make a lil "trail" that ends down there n tell him to lik it off if he still doesnt get the hint just grab his head n put it there i mean like guys when a woman is agressive and if ya engaged then ya should be pretty comfortable talkin about n e thing and s*x is one of them u kno. or just sit on his face, or do 69!

Answer 10

Some guys don't like to muff dive. I love it. Just keep talking about it and he'll come around.

Answer 11

Do you give him head? Stop- tell him its give & take & if he wants some head he needs to give some to!

Answer 12

Get used to it.  Seriously, if he doesn't like it or doesn't care, you are NOT going to change his mind.  You may get him to do it, but it will be a chore.  

Answer 13

Not every man are the traveler. But if you ask i think he may.

I am the traveler. I want to be able to see, touch, feel, and taste. Some time woman request i will go far end of the earth.

To me it is an experience and adventure and an exploration. If you don't go there and see it with your own eye than you would not know what it is look like. If you don't touch it then you would not know how it feel like. If you don't put the cherry in the mouth then you would never know what it is taste like.

Answer 14

Tell him what you like in bed! Don't play the guessing game.Anyway it might not be his preference.

Answer 15

not all guys are willing to go down their for whatever reason.

just stop going down on him, until he agrees to do you first.

Answer 16

guys (like me) think bets R to humiliate the other also some guys don't like doing that stuff but you can directly ask or he could be saving 4 that night.

Answer 17

Some guys don't enjoy doing that. Do you go south on him? Maybe if you do he'll return the favor. How about flat out asking him instead of hinting around? He might be squismh about it or doesnt' know how to approach it? Good luck!

Answer 18

You poor poor woman! Tell him that some weird chick on yahoo answers told you that every women deserves good oral at least twice a week! :)

Seriously, I would just tell him that you want to know what's wrong with it so that if it something about you, you can change it. He probably just doesn't like it... but that wouldn't fly with me. Tell your man that he better learn to like it!

Or annoy him by mentioning a previous partner who did that... hehehe! that's just the evil in me speaking. ;)

Answer 19

I should have married you, because I have the same problem but in reverse-  I have also thrown bets just to do the deed...   but I guess some guys are just not comfortable doing it. I have had friends who actually refused to perform on their g/f 's.... I don't get it... I think it's about the most intimate thing you can do with your partner...  I was " trained " by a previous ex to do it a certain way... I think it holds me back with my wife because I think she expects something different