How do I get in touch with my feminine side?

Question

How would one go about doing this? I'm a guy.

Answer 1

do girly things...do ur hair/nails, get facials, wear skirts,wear pink....but DONT talk like a really girly girl like a valley girl...it gets so f*ckin annoying....

Answer 2

Someone should just be themselves, look deep inside themselves and be exactly who they really are. Most people are multifaceted but if you haven't much of a 'feminine' side then that's just you. Femine and masculine traits are governed by society.

Answer 3

Start with cooking. Everybody loves food.  

Answer 4

I love my cat  has given a number of good ideas already.

In addition:  Take one or more of the related gender identity tests!  This may help you to explore the pattern and extent of your inner femininity.

Above all, watch how women move, sit, communicate, speak ! Try to copy it !

You have to go out en-femme to get the reaction of others and possibly to improve your passing. You may also study your appearance from pictures you have taken.

Read women´s books and magazines! Browse for beautiful clothes, lingerie, hosiery, and cosmetics on the internet. Go into related women´s stores and try on what you would like to wear!

Grow out your hair, if possible, with beautiful feminine hairstyles, get your browes and eye-lashes done in a cosmetic saloon, and try to get rid of your facial hair (laser treatment?). Paint your nails!

And try to find a partner (girlfriend or boyfriend?) who accepts your feminine ego or even loves it!  And if you have been successful, take dancing lessons with you to follow, like a real woman (one of the dreams I have not yet realized) !

To refer to one of you recent answers: A tampon will not help you, except if you have a fake v****a. But if improves your feeling, so what?

Answer 5

put on make up and high heels and touch your self in counterclockwise motions.....

Answer 6

from the look of your avatar, it seems you already have!

Answer 7

s**y dress and a hot pair of jimmy choo :D

Answer 8

You just need to hang out with your l***o gal pals a bit more often and take the odd trip to the Buddha's belly

Answer 9

Read "The Color Purple" by Alice Walker. A great book with predominantly female characters who are all strong. Also has a happy ending.

This might sound weird, but when I'm in the mood to connect to the womanly side of myself, I watch "The Mists of Avalon". Nothing like Goddess-worshiping pagan mothers/daughters/aunts to put you in a feminine sort of mood.

Also, spend some time with your female relatives/friends. When I'm at home cooking with my mother and grandmother, or aunts and cousins, I feel very much connected to my feminine self. It's not the cooking so much as being surrounded by females.

If you're feeling brave, draw a bath with scented sea salt and listen to Classical music. Or Sarah Brightman if you're feeling bold.

Maybe I'm drawing on some really screwed up stereotypes here, but when I think "femininity", and connecting with said femininity, these are the activities that come to mind.  

Answer 10

right since these lads don't now anything this is what my male mate did he went ot art lessons are even went ot get his nails done with a group of girls  but it was fun are even dont go to drama and put make up on if ur straight there is better ways like tv a good film and choclate it worked for him lol :)

Answer 11

Start by listening and really paying attention.