How do I get interested in s*x with my husband again?

Question

I am 30 and have been married for 10 years. when I was 22 I was in a lot of pain and 2 years later had a hysterectomy. During those 2 terrible years I could not be intimate, since it hurt so much, now that I can, I just don't want to. It is really hurting my marriage. I have talked to my doctor, and they cannot give my any more hormones then I already have and see nothing else wrong. s*x just never crosses my mind, nor does it interest me, but I love my husband, and just wish I could get some ideas on how to get the desire back so he can be happier, and our marriage can stay in tact. Thanks

Answer 1

have you tried s*x toys? or p**n?

Answer 2

I went through a phase when I wasn't really interested in s*x, too.  But after my hysterectomy my orgasms really became more intense.  I guess it's because I was finally rid of the physical problems, and of course, no more worries about pregnancy.  So, after experiencing a few of those mind-blowing episodes, I'm easily in the mood now!  Just try to keep an open mind.  There are some books out now, one is about a wife who gave her husband s*x every day for a year as a gift for his 40th birthday--whether she was in the mood or not.  She wrote about it in a book titled: "365 nights: A Memoir of Intimacy."  You might pick up a copy to see if you find any inspiration.

Answer 3

I agree with the first person answered your question.If you love your husband,you got to do something about your married,because s*x are important too for long lasting married life.If too much hurting for intimate there always ways to make your hubby happy.  

Answer 4

   Try a Cruise...if that  dont work...forget it and just get into showing off your body..works everytime

Answer 5

maybe you should see someone who specializes in s*x like a s*x therapist

Answer 6

Do you like back rubs? You could start off giving him a back rub and have him return the favor. It works most of the time when I'm not really in the mood.

Answer 7

You better get interested and soon cause if you dont your husband will start looking elsewhere for it.

Answer 8

I suggest that you see a psychologist and see if your desires can be rekindled. If you can't do that, check out a couple of x-rated DVD's and see if watching them helps. The human mind is a funny thing, and it is what needs to be worked on.

I wish you success.

Regards,

Dan

Answer 9

Have your husband wear a mask that looks like your boyfriend.