How do I get kids to like me?

Question

My sister's Boy friend ( who happens to be my best friend ) Comes's from a big family. He has 4 little sisters, and 2 brothers. When ever I go over to there house , his brother and sisters all hate me for no reason. But heres the thing, there all nice to my older sister , but with me they treat me like h**l. Some times I would babysit the little brats and that would be a night mare, but yet the pay is good so oh well. Anyway I tell them its bed time, they say No and run off. I try to make them a snack and they take the food and trow it at me. They had also trow there toys at me, put bugs in my pocket or my bag, kick me and call me names.

But when my sister some times babysit. There sweet little angers around her. Ohhh I would get so mad!

I don't know if I just want to make a fire pit and trow all of them in there or just grab a gun and make them like me.

I have no idea what i'm doing wrong! Can someone help me please?

Answer 1

Kids can sense who is so kind and not so kind.  Simply show them your sweet and gentle touch so that they will learn to like you.  

Take care and GOD BLESS THE CHILDREN!

Answer 2

Strict discipline will make them respect you more. Who cares if they don't like you, as long as you get your pay.

Answer 3

Sounds like your sister is just a nicer person...part of it could be that she doesn't threaten them with Guns and Fire-Pits...JUST a thought.

Answer 4

"I don't know if I just want to make a fire pit and trow all of them in there or just grab a gun and make them like me. "

well with an attitude like that, no wonder little kids don't respond positively to you.

Answer 5

some people just arent good with kids... maybe find a new family to babysit