OK, please help me explain to my brother that it is not normal that our father still gives him physical punishments (on top of grounding and chores).
He is 17 years old and he is like the coolest and toughest guy in our school and he is a straight A student and nobody knows that he still gets beaten by our dad when he does something wrong.
He usually gets it with his belt or a wooden stick on his back.
My brother says there is nothing wrong with that and dad only wants what's best for him and that it doesn't bother him. I think he;s been brainwashed to believe that because of course it must bother him because his back gets bruised and it obviously hurts a lot. My brother is into sports and is strong and he could certainly take dad physically if he wanted to. But he just willingly submits to this.
Our dad is never angry when he does it, it is more like a ritual, he tells him when and that could be days ahead (which I think is the torture in itself, waiting for it)
I am 16 and I would never let dad hit me like that!
I asked this question before but all I get is stuff like ''call CPS'', ''tell a teacher''...this is not an option. I need an advice on how to get my brother to stop taking the beatings and relize he is too old for this and that it does him no good.
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