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My husband has always been obsessed with sports. He grew up in a poor neighborhood in Chicago and sports was the only thing that he had. Well I have 3 children. My oldest son stood up for himself and they constantly fought each other. They have no relationship now. My husband destroyed my middle son. My middle son is a senior in college and he stopped playing baseball, wrestling and cross country after high school because my husband just made it miserable for him. He does stuff like if they ever had a bad match/game he would say how useless they are how much they suck. He controlled what they ate so it wouldnt affect their performance. If they did bad he would also blame it on their friends and ground them on the weekends. It was horrible. My oldest son just decided to stand up to him one day. He basically told my husband to F off by walking a cross country race. My husband freaked out and was going nuts. My oldes son finally told him that he would not compete if my husband ever came to one of his matches again. So my husband stopped going but they also stopped talking to eachother. My middle son though took it and always blamed himself. I have tried to talk to my husband but he wont listen. He was always nice to our daughter until she got into high school and now he is doing the same stuff to her. She is heartbroken and tonight she told me that she was going to be a failure in life if she couldnt even win a cross country meet or score 4 goals in one game. I dont know what I should do. Did my eldest have it right? He has been the only one who continued to do sports in college and succeed in them. Please if anyone has any suggestions for my daughter let me know. Thank you for your help.
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