How do I get my husband more interested in pursuing me?

Question

How do I get my husband more interested in pursuing me?

Answer 1

Victoria's Secret seems to work well.

Answer 2

If you're wanting more s*x, spice up the wardrobe .. if that's something you can pull off.  It naver hurts to have other guys checking you out when he's around. If you are wanting more attention -- more face time, more affection -- you can go about it one of two different ways, depending on what motivates him.  You can either start doing other things without him, basically leaving him out of the mix -- or you can go the other way, give him attention and compliments.  

I'm just a guy.  I don't know all the answers. Sometimes marriages just lose steam.  Try to find things that both of you like to do.  How do you get him interested?  Guys aren't real smart.  Its always better if you make it seem like it was his idea to do something.  

Answer 3

Act like your neighbor's wife.

Answer 4

Buy some new Lingerie. s**y lingerie always seems to work, even if they are only on 30 seconds!! LOL

Answer 5

be provocative  

Answer 6

uhh be suductive hahaha

Answer 7

dont be nagging all da time try some i love you some times, watch some movies together =] oooo and be s**y!! throw some new moves in there

Answer 8

Spend less time with him and wear high heels. Spend more time out with girlfriends, and he'll miss you and want to seduce you again

Answer 9

be s**y s**y clothes underwear make up be funny be soft be gentle make him want u like he did when u first meet xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Answer 10

Be sexual

Answer 11

Do things he likes to do together more often

Answer 12

bring another girl into the bedroom

Answer 13

Do stuff like u did when u first started dating.Invite him out to eat and met each other there.Laugh and talk like u just met each other.

Answer 14

You're married; pursuit is over, he won.

Now if you mean spend more time with you, you need to

get involved with him, spend some time doing what he likes.

Not always easy!  I've learned to like to wander through Lowe's

and look at the tools.

Answer 15

instead of doing what shy-gal2 said do opposite.....always wear long modest dresses so you body is only for his desire...grow your hair long because all guys love long hair on women... be affectionate and kind without demands. Take time for intelligent conversation--pre think it...be ready......and when intimacy happens be a lady and treat him like a man...........if you develop trust and respect in context of relationship everyday then kindness without demands will deepen your love and his love for you both....then s*x, joy and good times will happen naturally as a result but respect, trust and kindness will keep you both happiy together even in troublesome times;

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I have asked alot of old people whats most important in life? mostly and in different ways the answer is always be kind to others.

Answer 16

Im sure you have everything you need, therefore stop complaining so much. Not everything is worth mentioning nor every little fight is worth arguing about it - Oh and get some lingerie too from fredericks.

Answer 17

Add some excitement and mystery now and then.

Answer 18

dress up more like your sister ,that's who he's banging now

Answer 19

Dine out at least twice a month and/or be sure to have "date nights," going to the theater, movies, coffeehouse, basically anywhere but sitting at home.

Answer 20

Dress more s**y, be more provacative, buy toys from adult s*x stores, do new moves in bed on him, do chores naked, make a nice dinner at home for both of you and have chocolate dipped strawberries with champagne. All of this is great, it's kept my marriage great and it's almost going to be 3 years in September of this year.

You can also leave exotic letters where he can only see, talk to him in a more s**y way. Kiss him every once in a while and tell him you love him and that he always has you turned on and stuff like that.

Answer 21

start being a lil s**y...wear something you know he likes or something you may think he likes...get interested in him first. Ask him about his day...compliment him...kiss him in spots you know he likes...give him a short back rub...you have to do to him what you want in return!! if that doesn't work have a couple drinks together or smoke a joint and watch a movie in bed

Answer 22

Stop shaving your body hair, be s**y, enjoy s*x and think s*x.  

Answer 23

cook him a hot meal

serve him some cold beer

give him more oral

he'll be yours for life

Answer 24

you need more detail how long you been together ..when the lack of interest I 've been with my fiance 9 years so we ve had up and downs and slumps depending on work patterns , stress and tiredness you get through it  

Answer 25

No panty in Fishnet

Answer 26

Ignore him.