How do I get my husband to spend more time with me?

Question

How do I get my husband to spend more time with me?

Answer 1

Yeah!  What ßuηηiє said.  Wind up your sexual appetite and get down on this guy.  Meet him at the door in the nude.  Jump his bones in the morning.  Let him walk into the bedroom and find you naked, bent over, and spread.  Tell him to take you.

Answer 2

life gets busy- so my husband and I decided to make every Friday night date night.  no matter what, we set aside Friday night- just for each other we take turns planning our "date."  even if we have no money- we swap babysitting with my sister and just enjoy time alone.  ask your husband for a date night once a week.  he'll love it too- it spices up the love life!

Answer 3

Take your top off, and leave it off, even when you go to the store.  

Answer 4

WOW......just went through the same thing with mine.......my husband is very happy on the sofa in front of the t.v. and I mean all day. I have tried everything to tell him that I am also in the house with him and deserve attention..........I think it is a give and take........there has to be a balance...........example he does his thing, t.v. reading, computer and you have your time but there must be time together......it is very important to any relationship. To love someone is to see that they are happy and to make them happy their needs must be fulfilled. good luck

Answer 5

make him a really awsome tuna fish sandwich....that always worked for my old aunt betty

Answer 6

Act like your his girlfriend and not his wife.

Answer 7

honestly , ive noticed that the the only way i get my husband to spend more time to me , is to ignore him !! lol sounds weid , but for some reason it works for me !!

Answer 8

I would maybe try appealing to some things that he might like to do. Be the initiator and ask him if he'd like to go to a bar, hooters, casino, sports event... whatever. Once you've done this for him he might really appreciate it and return the favor. If not, don't be afraid to ask for what you want. Communication and being mutually giving is KEY to any marriage. Good luck!

Answer 9

Try going out more often and do things that you use to enjoy doing. Also maybe wear some s**y clothing every now and than to get his attention.

Answer 10

umm I have no clue!!! I have that problem too! so if you figure it girl, LET ME KNOW LOL!!

Answer 11

Here is what we have done that I don't normally share with people.  My husband and I have a ranch, kids and he works out of town 7 days in a row and then home 7 days.  So, needless to say, we are busy people.  Our oldest is a teenager and in the H.S. band.  I am busy with band boosters.  So, volunteer work also has me going.  Here is how we have solved that issue with us.

After all the kids are in bed (8 for the younger 2, 9 for the teenager) we shut everything off in the living room and the rest of the house.  Get our showers and while he is still in the bathroom, I will turn on XM radio to the Heart station and pipe it through the surround system in the bedroom.  When he comes out of the bathroom, he lights some candles and places them around the bedroom.  We will lay on the bed talking, holding, caressing and holding (I like the holding part) each other.  It is not time to go to sleep.  We spend about 2 hours with each other like that just sharing our heart, thoughts of love for each other and tune the world out.  The music is soft and enjoyable and the candles are dim.  What a better way to spend time with the person you love.