How do I get my husband to stop acting like animal without him whining? Tired of being groped 24/7?

Question

How do I get my husband to stop acting like animal without him whining? Tired of being groped 24/7?

Answer 1

Let's see if I am getting this right.... He is groping you 24/7 and treating you like a piece of meat and you are worried about him whining???? Give me a break... I would tell him you are his wife and not some tramp on the street corner.. Tell him if he does not treat you like a lady and not like a dog, you will put him in the dog house.. If he starts to whining...... h**l.... Give him a time out and tell him to grow up. There come a time went both people needs to grow up, if he is not going to do it .... then you need too... Tell him to STOP.....Just to let the rest of the people reading this know something about the law.

...... If someone is groping you and you say stop and they keep on doing it.... They can be charge with sexual assault.... Even if you are married.... Time to put your dog in check...

Good luck

Answer 2

Oh my goodness I'm glad I'm not the only one going through this.My husband is constantly groping me,it's ok sometimes but sometimes he does when I'm just not in the mood for it and when I say something to him about it he says fine I just wont touch you anymore.It does get tiresome sometimes just tell him that you are tired of him constantly groping you.

Answer 3

use visuals with him when you want to say something to him

do NOT tell him, "We need to talk"!!!  

we hate to talk.  Just talk or use visuals.  

sign language does not count.  

and give him the finger, iether.  

just use visuals.  

Answer 4

Cut him off............... he will eventualy go some where else.....

Answer 5

Check with your local social services and see what can be done.  He is being abusive with his behavior.  I had the same problem and he wouldn't stop.  I tried to get him mental help but he didn't want to admit he had a problem.  Check legally to see if you can get a restraining order as well.  Good luck!  Men like that are obsessive/compulsive and they treat you like a possession and not a person.

Answer 6

Ok so your tired of him being all over you. What are you gonna do when he stops? Start complaining that he doesn't want you anymore? Come on. Pick one. At least he wants you.

Answer 7

ya know i kinda had this prob in the beginning of my relationship... the first time, i never said anything, then all of a sudden, i said, "knock it the F off.." and it started a mini fight... like, he was mad that i didnt just say to him, "honey, i love you, but can i please have some personal space..." then, several months later, it kinda started again, and this time, i did say, "please can you not grope me all the time...  i dont mind it sometimes, but all the time is getting to be too much.." and this time he was like, "you know you're oushing me away right?" then, the rest of the week, if he even bumped into me, he'd say, "oops sorry, didnt mean to touch you..." he got really annoying either way... but then, it got better.. i relaxed and i found that if i let him touch me and if i acted like i wanted him more, then, i didnt get groped all the time.. its kinda wierd.. but now that he's been away for 2 weeks and i havnt been touch at all, i want his hands all over me!!!

Answer 8

Jiu Jitsu has some excellent painful holds to place him in when he grabs you.

I assume you have tried to get him to stop, and he won't.  Men respond to pain as correction of animalistic behavior.  

No means no, even when married.

Answer 9

Stop feeding him raw meat, and put him in his kennel till he calms down.

Answer 10

why don't you talk to him?

Answer 11

Wow I wish I had your problem. I love s*x and being felt up. I guess let him know Its bothering you and it doesnt turn you on for him to do that all the time.

Answer 12

pop a sleeping pill ' in his coffee . every now and again .

Answer 13

Had the same problem... and no it did not start until we moved in together. My now ex was always groping me and I told him to stop being so blatant about it and stop doing it so constantly. He whined and got depressed/mopy *rolls eyes* ... he was melodramatic and really clingy/needy ... I hope your situation works out and that you find a way to talk to your husband, without either of you feeling guilty.  

Answer 14

As you probably well know this isn't an issue of groping and s*x.  You are desiring some distance (a bit of "breathing" room) and he is sensing this.  He feels that if you move a little bit away you might keep going and not look back.  So he reaches out to grab on to you.  Of course this is disguised as being playful s*x.  But when you try to assert a bit of "breathing room" he gets fearful and begins to "whine."  I'll bet is sounds something like this..."c'mon baby, you know I think you're the sexiest thing on the planet, you just turn me on so much that I can't help myself"...  

One might pay attention to the deeper issues of his fears of being alone and your fears of being smothered.  This may take a bit of time and professional help.  But I assure you it will be worth it.

Answer 15

Would you rather him "grope" another woman 24/7?  ( ^ _ ^ )  It may be annoying but consider yourself lucky.  At least "you" and "only you" are on his mind 24/7.  Now that's passion!

P.S.

I had a girlfriend a while back that use to do that to me.  Yes you're right.  It does get annoying.  Especially when I was trying to play nintendo or watch a guy flick.  ( ^ _ ^ )  He just likes to love on you.

Answer 16

Trying gaining about 60 lbs.  I am sure that will do it.  Take this as a compliment honey!!!!

Answer 17

Hon, you need to ask him this question.  Communication is the key to a successful relationship.  If you're having problems being groped, you should face him and bring the issue up.  Chances are, without your stating otherwise, he thinks you like it.  He'll never know there's a problem, unless you face it.  Men don't have ESP...they can't look at your butt and read your minds, in other words.  lol  Tell him.

God's blessings on you and yours...Always!

Answer 18

We don't really know the whole situation here.  What do you mean by groping?  Is he a good husband to you in general?  Does he work, does he treat you right?  Maybe he's just horny and wants s*x b/c he's, um, like married to you.  Where else is he gonna go to do stuff like that?

Now if he treats you like garbage all the rest of the time and then he comes groping after you, then that would be a different story, I guess.

Answer 19

Sorry men are like that.  At least you know he's normal.  

Answer 20

Keep a hidden stash of brown beans somewhere, that you can slip off & eat some of, and when he gropes you.............cut a big ole STINKY f**t !!!!!!