How do I get my mother to butt out of my relationships at least for a little while? I'm 27?

Question

As much as I respect my mother and her opinion, she will not keep out of my relationship I'm trying to fix with my bf. She wants to know everything that's going on and what is happening between us, but I'm not completely sure what's going on with it myself. I need time to think about it.

I tell her to please stay out of it for now, until I have things figured out, but she just gets mad,and ends up calling and emailing me about how the relationship is going the next day!

How do I get her to stop?

Answer 1

use silence.  explain to her that if she doesn't stop, you will not talk to her at all for any reason.  You don't have to tolerate anything you don't like.

Answer 2

tell her you are not going to talk about it and change the subject if she continues then just politely tell her you are going to hang up or leave. it make take a few times until she gets it but you need to stand your ground. and she will eventually see things your way good luck in your relationship and with your mother.